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Jun 20^th, 2009 at 12:26am

Well as some of you may remember I was disowned by my family last month. I have gotten word via the friend grapevine that my father is dying of Congestive heart failure. I had to ring and email my family asking them not to have me locked away for insanity if I come back to the USA to see him or for the funeral. My sister who is disabled for mental reasons has convinced my family that I am the one who needs locked up. Go figure that one out? This is because I made a comment about shrooms and lsd and everyone got all annoyed about it. I have a legal record so clean you could eat off it!

Would everyone please pray or send good vibes if you want and its possible so that I can safely go back to the USA and see my father? Currently I need all the help I can get.

I have never had any legal or medical problems with either drugs or alcohol and honestly question my familys judgement listening to a person who is paranoid schizophrenic and manic depressive saying I am the one who is insane.

Have a pain free day! Thanks again! Sophia

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Jimi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't feed the moderators Posts: 4925 Madisonville, KY Gender:	Re: UGH Reply #1 - Jun 20^th, 2009 at 12:32am You got it Sophia.........Good luck!
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: UGH Reply #4 - Jun 20^th, 2009 at 9:29am Good luck to you Sophia!
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barry_sword CH.com Alumnus Offline Mountain Biking Keeps Me Sane Posts: 3947 Bracebridge, Canada Gender:	Re: UGH Reply #5 - Jun 20^th, 2009 at 9:47am Sending you all I have Sophia, damn them for doing this to you! You have all of us here behind you, this is family who won't turn our backs on you!
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Callico CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Author of "Stranded at Romson's Lodge Posts: 4916 Aurora IL Gender:	Re: UGH Reply #6 - Jun 20^th, 2009 at 5:54pm I'll be praying for you, both for being able to come back to see your Dad, but also that you can patch up your differences with your family. Sll the best Jerry
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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: UGH Reply #7 - Jun 20^th, 2009 at 8:16pm Will do and on I'm on your side with all the prayers and vibes I can muster. Charlie
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Reply #8 - Jun 20^th, 2009 at 9:36pm

So sorry for the pain that is tormenting your heart. I wish you all the best in your time of great need.

You say your sister is suffering from a mental illness. That is very sad to hear, all that means is that she is not in her right mind. There is another bridge you can cross to return to your family.

It is my heartfelt wish that you find it.

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Reply #9 - Jun 21^st, 2009 at 7:31am

Thank you everyone. I have received word via email today that I cannot go back to visit my father or for his eventual funeral because I will be locked up by my family. Unfortunately they have saved all of my emails and many were sent during pain attacks so of course I sound crazy. And my sister has said she will do anything in her power to see me locked away for insanity here in Denmark.

I am grateful for my CH family and I am trying not to blame my American one or my Danish one for their attitudes since during a CH attack I am nuts! I think that is one of the symptoms???? Giggle.

Anyway I really appriciate you all and will be getting on with my life and doing my utmost to be supportive of all those here on this site and those I run across in my life outside of the internet. This is how I will repay kindness given by you all and other people I have met.

I thank you all again for kind thoughts and good vibes.

Big pain free wishes, Sophia

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Reply #11 - Jun 21^st, 2009 at 10:44am

Sophia wrote on Jun 21^st, 2009 at 7:31am:

Thank you everyone. I have received word via email today that I cannot go back to visit my father or for his eventual funeral because I will be locked up by my family. Unfortunately they have saved all of my emails and many were sent during pain attacks so of course I sound crazy. And my sister has said she will do anything in her power to see me locked away for insanity here in Denmark.

I am grateful for my CH family and I am trying not to blame my American one or my Danish one for their attitudes since during a CH attack I am nuts! I think that is one of the symptoms???? Giggle.

Anyway I really appriciate you all and will be getting on with my life and doing my utmost to be supportive of all those here on this site and those I run across in my life outside of the internet. This is how I will repay kindness given by you all and other people I have met.

I thank you all again for kind thoughts and good vibes.

Big pain free wishes, Sophia

What a crock of shit. No one can just lock you up even if you are nuts.

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Reply #12 - Jun 21^st, 2009 at 11:56am

Potter wrote on Jun 21^st, 2009 at 10:44am:

Sophia wrote on Jun 21^st, 2009 at 7:31am:

Thank you everyone. I have received word via email today that I cannot go back to visit my father or for his eventual funeral because I will be locked up by my family...

What a crock of shit. No one can just lock you up even if you are nuts.

Potter

Agreed. Sounds to me as though you just need a quick lesson on what your rights are.

If anything, your ex-family fucking with you upon your return is pushing the legal envelope. Being related to you affords them no special rights or privileges concerning your affairs.

Invest $150 in a one hour chat session with an attorney. Learn your rights with regard to assault, intimidation, threats and harassment. Leave irrelevant shit such as 'my sister is crazier than I am' out of if.

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