ClusterChuck
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OK, I just got off the phone with Karia, Ryan's wife.
From the sounds of it, he needs the DBS. He is under the care of the uber specialist, Dr Goadsby. He can't get any more competent care than that!
He HAS tried virtually everything. When he got under Dr Goadsby's care, they went back through, and retried all the meds and treatments that Dr Goadsby knows about and NONE of them have worked. Dr Goadsby is the one who has decided that the DBS is the way to go.
In my mind, that settles any questions or queasiness that I had. If Dr Goasby calls for it, then that is the way to go!
Ryan has lots of other medical issues that are making it difficult to treat him, too. So there are many issues to have to deal with.
Karia was very happy to talk with me, and I gave her all the little tricks that I know of, to take the edge off, like hot; cold; melatonin; energy drinks; etc. I told her how many people are concerned with Ryan, and wondering how they can help. She was quite touched to hear that, and thanks you all VERY much. I also told her to call me at ANY time to ask questions, cry, scream, swear at me, or whatever she needs. She said she would.
I guess now, the best we can do for them is to send any and all vibes, prayers or whatever to him, and them. His life is shit right now. He has NO family life. He can't do a thing with his kids. He is about at the end of his rope, and the rope is frayed.
It breaks my heart to talk with Karia, but she is one AWESOME supporter! She also is VERY learned about clusters! She HAS done her homework and done a LOT of research. She KNOWS what she is talking about! Ryan is very lucky to have her in his corner! I have invited her to this site, and she said she would try to check us out.
An O2PTIMASKTM is on its way to them, being sent out today. They already have oxygen, and a regulator that goes up to 25 LPM. I explained how to hyperventilate, and can only hope it helps him.
We also discussed 'shrooms and clusterbusters. There are valid reasons they have not gone that route.
So, send them all the prayers, vibes, good ju-ju and anything else you can find!
Chuck
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