Welcome to the board, glad you found us. First, take the cluster headache quiz on the left. That'll give you a better idea of what we look for in CH. If you are not already doing so, start keeping a DETAILED headache diary. When they start, how fast they build, how high they build, (The Kip Scale on the left in the tabs is a useful tool for measuring pain), how long they stay at peak and how fast they fade. Try to identify food and life style triggers. The more information you can record, the better your odds of a competent diagnosis. The following is a link I stole from one of Bob's posts...forgive me Bob....but it's a great post on how to find a headache specialist. You NEED a headache specialist.:
LOCATING HEADACHE SPECIALIST
1. Search the OUCH site (button on left) for a list of recommended M.D.s.
2. Yellow Pages phone book: look for "Headache Clinics" in the M.D. section and look under "neurologist" where some docs will list speciality areas of practice.
3. Call your hospital/medical center. They often have an office to assist in finding a physician. You may have to ask for the social worker/patient advocate.
4. Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to

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; On-line screen to find a physician.
5. Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to

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Look for "Physician Finder" search box. Call 1-800-643-5552; they will send a list of M.D.s for your state.I suggest using this source for several reasons: first, we have read several messages from people who, even seeing neurologists, are unhappy with the quality of care and ATTITUDES they have encountered; second, the clinical director of the Jefferson (Philadelphia) Headache Clinic said, in late 1999, that upwards of 40%+ of U.S. doctors have poor training in treating headache and/or hold attitudes about headache ("hysterical female disorder") which block them from sympathetic and effective work with the patient; third, it's necessary to find a doctor who has experience, skill, and a set of attitudes which give hope of success. This is the best method I know of to find such a physician.
That's twice I've plagiarzed Bob's post now, will eventually have to start paying him royalties!

The reason we stress the importance of an accurate diagnosis is there are hundreds of headache types, meds which help one can be worthless and even harmful for other types. As a layman, much of what you describe does sound like it may be CH. That's as close to a diagnosis as a layman like me can give!! It's worth the time and effort to get the correct diagnosis. Wishing you luck on your journey, let us know how it goes for you.
Joe