Thanks everyone for your thoughts an d advice. it's really great to get other's perspectives as I feel so alone when dealing with CHs in general, and now it's spilled into work too.
I only had time to read through your responses as I'm running late to take my son to preschool, but wanted to share I had my 1st PF night in this episode. YAY! This isn't unusual for me, as I usually have PF days here and there, and I'm sure it's not the end of this episode, but I feel GOOOOD today

@EmJay: I actually have been on this site for many years, and have read up on a lot. I should have been more clear about that, and the number of posts I've made certainly doesn't reflect that. I do have Imitrex injections (6mg I believe) at the ready, but they are a few years old. Would they still work?
@Charlotte: I have yet to get hit at work during this cycle, but had a couple of mid-day hits this weekend so I'll wait and see...
@Weatherman: despite my initial reaction, which is very anti-"playing the game," I think that with 2 young kids (infant and toddler), this may be the safest thing to do. I just worry that it might backfire and be perceived as an excuse to slack off. However, since the HR department is aware of my good track record, I don't think I need to be overly concerned about it. I'll think about this today.
@Joni: my concern is what happens if I need to duck out of a meeting, or miss work, or seem out of it some days. Then it might be perceived as my dragging my feet, being a slacker. This, I'm thinking, might be worse considering all the other factors associated with my work situation, which is hard to convey on the forums.
@Mark: that really, really sucks about your coworkers not having a clue and creating a negative work situation for you. Have you thought about changing jobs yourself? Maybe we can start a new business together, bu clusterheads and for clusterheads? LOL But I may only tell my HR rep and not my new boss/team.
@Bob: I want to understand you more clearly: when you say "Using abortives which have the fastest/proven action will, generally, deliver you from the long "hang over" effects of an attack," do you mean using the Maxalt or Zyprexa instead of O2, and that the pills are better than O2 for hangovers?
Also, if I wasn't being clear about it, I haven't gotten hit at work (yet). If I do, are you suggesting to pop a pill instead/along with O2?
So you know, I've had mixed results with Maxalt as an abortive (can't rely on it to abort consistently), and never tried Zyprexa. I'm a little worried about the Zyprexa as I've heard people having reactions to it which may make it hard to work. My Neuro prescribed these hard 10mg Zyprexa pills which I can't break in half, so perhaps I should ask for a 5mg Rx instead.
Every word of advice and encouragement has been such a positive thing for me, everyone. Thanks again.
-- Ryder