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Nov 25th, 2009 at 12:24am
 
Hello to my new family. I can't believe a place like this exists. Its like having a rare disease and finding a discussion board on it much less all of the great information contained on this site. I upgraded from those pesky migraines to clusters in February of '06. How I long for the days of migraines. I feel like I could run a marathon during one of those compared to my life now. I haven't had a ch for a few days of this new bout and still cried like a baby tonight when I found this site. Reading stories of others when you feel like your the only one in the world was overwhelming. I was so glad to know someone can relate and so sad to know how many others go through what I do. That includes the family members and friends of ch sufferers. I have to show this to my Mom and husband. They are so pissed off to be helpless when it happens. They could use this site as much as me. Thank you to everyone here for coming forward and being a part of something so important to me and every other ch person who has found this place!
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Grandma always said "this too shall pass". But then again she didn't have ch so she didn't think to say "this too shall come again (and again) at the most inconvenient times".
 
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Reply #1 - Nov 25th, 2009 at 12:53am
 
Welcome home to you and yours
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Reply #2 - Nov 25th, 2009 at 1:15am
 
So glad you found us!!!
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Reply #3 - Nov 25th, 2009 at 1:16am
 
Hello to you fellow Clusterhead!
I'm so glad you found us.  When I found this site in 2005 I cried for two days.  It had been 13 years of suffering on my own.  I couldn't believe there was an entire website dedicated to "me", the same pain, support and expert patient knowledge.  I was overjoyed.

My husband too is having hard time finding his support method.  He feels so helpless.  He is gone most of the week, every week, and thinks he is not being a good husband by being there.  It's almost better he is gone, I don't have to wake him, or watch him saddened he can't help me in the midst of a doozy CH everyday.

You must tell us more, are you using any rx's, O2, how bad is cycle now, are you chronic or episodic?

Again, welcome Remission Lover, we are always here,
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Reply #4 - Nov 25th, 2009 at 1:59am
 
Welcome home...yeah....bawling like a baby is a suprisingly common response to finding your long lost family! Smiley

Okay enough of the nicey-nicey crap! What are you using for a preventative medication? Do you have a decent abortive routine? Do you have oxygen yet? When you get a second, let us know your routine, what has and hasn't worked for you in the past. Maybe you'll drop a new pearl on us, maybe we can make some suggestions you can take back to your doc to tweak your regimen and hurt a little less. The strength of this board is the real life experiences of its family.

Damned glad you found us, hope we can help you!

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Reply #5 - Nov 25th, 2009 at 1:15pm
 
I love reading the 'getting to know ya' section.  Its definately the best feel good experience of them all....

Yeah, as both Angela and Joe mentioned, if you want to share your current treatment method with us we could learn from it.
so much experience and compassion put together on this site, you'll be surprised about the insightful answers you'll get back
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Reply #6 - Nov 28th, 2009 at 10:32pm
 
Thank you so much to everyone who responded and welcomed me. You guys really do feel like family and I don't even know you. My name is Roberta, I am 28 and I live in Michigan. I am lucky enough to live 45 min away from MHNI (Michigan Head Pain and Neurological Institute). My mom found them for me while trying to use google to diagnois me. We thought I was going to have a real live brain explosion and die right on the living room floor as I'm sure you can relate when they hit the first time and you don't know what the hell is going on. Let me express that anyone able to get to this place that doesn't already have a specialist for themselves would benefit immensely. They are so damned knowledgable and caring its unreal. They have hundreds of techniques, drugs and procedures and never give up on you. Anyhow, I have been officially diagnosed. My clusters come once a year and last two weeks to two months with a bout of "tolerable" ones on and off all day most days and the devil himself once or twice a week approx. two hours after bedtime. Going to MHNI is expensive as I have no insurance. About $175 per visit. So I mostly go at myself with no meds. A hot wash cloth over the right temple and eye that feels like its falling out and lots of rocking and stomping and crying with the fan on high. When I do involve the specialist, Prednisone clears me up within about a week after the last tapered dose. I can't express how much oxygen helps. I sprang for it with an rx in '06 and haven't been able to afford the visit for the rx since. My biggest question for everyone is am I able to get o2 without a rx?
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Reply #7 - Nov 28th, 2009 at 10:57pm
 
I do!

I get hospital grade or welding grade (costing about $53 for the really big guy-as big as me).  I haven't noticed a difference in the grades.  I have my own regulator (my husband makes home-brew) and I get my ox mask (non-re-breather) from the clinic, they have disposable ones wrapped in plastic.

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Reply #8 - Nov 28th, 2009 at 11:09pm
 
Good suggestion. Thank you. Realized after I posted and re-read it myself that I should at least call the Institute and request a rx be sent to a local pharmacy or supply company. The docs there know how much it helps and since I'm not asking for "drugs", they may do it for me. Helps to get stuff off my chest here. It brings new ideas to me just like having a conversation with someone on the couch. Gets the creative juices flowing. Also went to the 02 link and read up on it. The amount of info on this site is amazing!!
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Reply #9 - Nov 29th, 2009 at 1:55am
 
Hi and welcome Smiley
I am new here too.
The topic you chose for this thread sums my feelings quite well.
I count on my neurologist as far as the treatment goes. What he cannot help me with is the sense of loneliness in face of people who are unable to understand how crippling "headaches" can be.
Two days ago, an attack hit me when we were at my mum's. She later told me something along the lines of "I understand that you suffer, but you can still be nice to people"...
Trying to explain that at the peak of attacks making the pain go is the only thing you care about just doesn't work.
I don't blame them, to be honest. If I did not experience it myself, I think that I would not be as tolerant as my boss towards a worker with a similar problem.
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Reply #10 - Nov 29th, 2009 at 10:39pm
 
Hi Roberta
Great idea...just call and ask about a prescription!    But remember to word it exactly like it says on the O2 page...

I can't imagine trying to get through a cycle without oxygen!!  Good luck
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Reply #11 - Dec 1st, 2009 at 2:47pm
 
Welcome remission lover!

BTW, I absolutely love your name  Smiley
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Reply #12 - Dec 1st, 2009 at 6:57pm
 
Hello and welcome,

Get 02... Get 02... Get 02... Get 02. Get 02... Get 02... Get 02...


Oh, by the way did i metion Oxygen treatment for Cluster Headaches.   

                 Welcome again,
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Reply #13 - Dec 1st, 2009 at 10:53pm
 
Thanks to everyone who keeps posting. During this cycle, I have something to look forward to which is checking for responses on this site. I love it. Thank you Chad for the welcome, I can't get over the support I get here. To Coach Bill, I can't agree more with the adivce. O2 isn't the best thing since sliced bread, its better. Called the institute to see about calling in an rx for oxygen (see previous post above) but alas they said no. Can't blame them. If we only went to be diagnosed and find out our treatment regimen, they would be out of business. Also haven't had an appt. for three plus years. No better time than Christmas time to spring for a doctor or urgent care visit just for the rx I'd get out of it right? If clusters ever morphed into a physical being, I would ring it's f**n neck till it died!!! Then revive it and send it to each of you to do the same! BTW, anyone who hasn't read "the devil" as one of the links here has to do it. Haven't laughed at dark humor like that in a while. I'll leave you with a little tip of mine. For those of you who chose to use heat on the beast: I buy and carry hand warmers (those little air activated packets hunters use in their gloves and boots) with me wherever I go. It's not as good as a hot washcloth and your own bathroom, but I keep them with me for outings, friends houses and especially work. It's not the greatest tip but it takes the edge off kinda like a security blanket. Just thought I'd share that. PF days, here I come, sooner or later.
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Reply #14 - Dec 2nd, 2009 at 3:33am
 
Have we mentioned the energy drink route with you yet? Monster, Rock Star, any containing the combination of Caffeine and Taurine....many can abort an attack or at least really back it down by chugging one of these at the first sign of an attack. Some even keep one or two cans in their fridge...opened so they lose their fizz and are easier to chug. The trick is to chug not sip!!! Might be worth a shot while you wait for the appointment.

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Reply #15 - Dec 2nd, 2009 at 1:23pm
 
I guess I noticed it on other posts about the energy drinks but didn't really consider it since I don't drink them. But as we all know, there's hardly anything we won't try when the beast arrives so I will definitely go get a couple and keep them handy. Thanks for the tip about the carbonation (opening them beforehand). My husband loves monster and I know how fizzy they can be.
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Reply #16 - Dec 2nd, 2009 at 1:33pm
 
I carry  generic Red Bull in my purse! ( Aldi carries Red Thunder, it's much cheaper!)

Welcome home Roberta! Glad you are here but sorry you have to be!   Stick around after your cycle ends.  We could always use some extra hands to help row this boat!

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Reply #17 - Dec 2nd, 2009 at 11:12pm
 
Welcome remission lover.  Sorry we had to meet this way. I can second the red bull. Or even strong cofffee.  Glad your here.  Hope your days are pain free. Or you get some relief. If you ever get ahold of the beast. We should have a party. We can all ring it's next.  Wink

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Reply #18 - Dec 3rd, 2009 at 4:23pm
 
Thank you to Jeannie and Jrcox for the welcomes and the good advice. I had been having "mild" attacks during the day and being able to sleep at night for the most part until last night. Every damn time you start to believe in a pattern during your cycle your mocked by doing so. Not pretty last night. Just had to vent for a minute. I woke my husband up who insists on being there for me when he knows whats happening. I feel so guilty because he has to be up early and I am unemployed right now. Which is my other problem. I am almost positive I will be getting this new job I applied for and need my cycle to end before it costs me a job I haven't even started yet. Enough ranting. Thanks for listening. I plan to continue coming here even after the cycle just to lend an ear to everyone. I am lucky enough to be episodic and want to continue my support to those having a cycle or those unfortunate souls that are chronic. Now that I have found you guys, good luck gettin rid of me!
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