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Nov 29th, 2009 at 6:04pm
 
Shocked i am new to this whole thing. the site and this disease. i've had so many problems it feels like if it's not one thing it's another. i am not prepared to face this alone and my parents don't know how to help me. maybe someone else does? i'd appreciate it. thank you.

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Reply #1 - Nov 29th, 2009 at 6:56pm
 
Hi Andi..

Are you male/female?  What state do you live in?  Not asking for last names or addresses...but the people here are all over the U.S. and I like to call the newcomers to welcome them.. as well as answer any questions they might have.

     When I came here over 11 years ago...I was so new and was so grateful for this site...We are family here now and you are one that family.  Please just introduce yourself, tell us something about why you're here...OR below my post there is a "PM"   click on it and I will be happy to talk to you one on one

             We are ALL here to help.

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Reply #2 - Nov 29th, 2009 at 6:57pm
 
Hi Andi
  You came to the right place...welcome.

   Look around in here, and you will find answers to all your questions,   AND we all know what your going through   ... you are not alone.
   What kind of meds are you getting?  Let us know your story.   
         Stick around.  And maybe get your parents to come here too...there is a great bunch of supporters here too.   
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Reply #3 - Nov 30th, 2009 at 12:41am
 
Welcome Andi.........we don't diagnose here and we don't prescribe meds.....but you won't find a more complete knowledge base on CH anywhere in the world. Let us know what meds you're taking, how you were diagnosed, what has and hasn't worked, how often you're getting hit etc. We'll do our best to make suggestions to take back to your doc to help alleviate the pain.

The good news is you're not alone, hang in there.

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Reply #4 - Nov 30th, 2009 at 1:26am
 
Hi Andi and welcome to our little corner.

Everybody here knows what a horror CH is. The more you read and hopefully share with us the better you'll be at getting others to understand.

Stick around and I hope you will tell us more.

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Reply #5 - Nov 30th, 2009 at 4:35am
 
Hi Andi

Best place this.  Support is here, you do not have to do this alone.

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Reply #6 - Nov 30th, 2009 at 5:35am
 
Andi as asufferer myself as well as the mother of a sufferer I can relate to both you and your parents experiences with this.

They sound like they need help learning how to support you with this and understanding how you feel and the condition itself.

There is no better place than here for that!

You say your therapist has said you sound like you have CH and that is a good start but it isn't a diagnosis honeybun. There are over 600 headache types with many overlapping symptoms and it will take a headache specialist neurologist to accurately both diagnose and medicate you given that you have other ongoing conditions too.

The MOST essential thing and I can't stress this enough is that you have an MRI. With pain of this nature all avenues have to be explored as med's for one condition can be harmful in another. An MRI is essential in ruling out some other conditions and headache types where some typical cluster meds could be extremely dangerous.

You are so welcome to be here! We will help and support you all the way to getting a diagnosis I promise and from there on in as well.

I'd like to refer you to a particular friend of mine who I absolutely think the world of. Her name is Felicia and like you, she is 17. She doesn't have CH but she is the daughter of parents with CH and is a phenomenal supporter. She will understand everything and she'll help you on a peer level too.

That's not to say the rest of us won't! We will!! ABSOLUTELY! It's just sometimes, it's easier to have someone in your age group.

Hang in there, you've got all of us in your corner now too!

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Reply #7 - Nov 30th, 2009 at 7:59am
 
Hey sorry I'm late to the party. Aren't I always though? Anywho, hey! As you can see I'm Felicia. I'm 17, live in NY and I been playing this game since I was 10. I've got two sufferers that I live with and then these guys who I call mine too. They're family. And hopefully you will be too.

I know CH is hard, even though I don't have it. I've had migrains since I was 7 though so I understand what it's like to have other people look at you like you're crazy. Hey it happens. This is the site you run to. No one here will think you're crazy (unless you really are). But to get to my point.

I am the teenage welcome wagon (find my link in the newbie board). I'm here for all the cluster"kids" (I say that in quotes because there are no kids with clusters, they're old before their time) to b*tch, rant, cry, scream, question, and what ever else is needed to. I try to help all I can.

PM, email, Facebook, cell, it's all there. I'm always around when you need some one to talk to. I don't post here a lot but I do keep an eye out. Any way, that's my deal and feel free to ask. But do me a favor and try to answer the questions people ask you here. They ARE trying to help. They know a lot more about meds and stuff like that than I do. I'm just the emotional support. Let them do their thing and you'll be just fine.

Welcome to the family hun. Sorry you need us, glad you found us, and hope you're here to stay.

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Reply #8 - Dec 4th, 2009 at 7:08pm
 
im sorry it took me so long to get back to this place. i am a female. i don't have much time right now but i'll put down as much of my story as i can. i've had migraines for as long as i can remember. but they have gotten worse and worse. now i have them mostly everyday, several times a day. one time i was in so much pain it drove me to overdose on ibeprofin. i have a neuroligist appointment in like 3 weeks and for once i feel like im getting closer to some answers.  Smiley  this sight is very neat and im glad i've found it. so anyway i am open to questions and advice.

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Reply #9 - Dec 4th, 2009 at 7:23pm
 
Andi,

Please understand that anyone here is going to be hesitant to give you cluster-specific advice if you don't have a diagnosis from a neurologist or headache specialist.

One thing you can do without a diagnosis is slam a can of an energy drink (like Red Bull) at the first twinge. The drink should contain both caffeine (60-140mg) and taurine (1000mg). Drink it as fast as you can stand. This combnation seems to have the ability to knock out a good number of attacks if you catch them early.
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Reply #10 - Dec 4th, 2009 at 10:57pm
 
Hi Andi,

Sorry for your pain.   Try the energy drinks as Brew suggested.  It helps me a great deal most of the time.

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Reply #11 - Dec 4th, 2009 at 11:43pm
 
thanks for that. i'll be sure to give that a try during the next attack... which is unfortunately on its way.  Embarrassed
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Reply #12 - Dec 4th, 2009 at 11:53pm
 
Try to drink it at the first sign of an attack.  Drink it as fast as you can and see if it helps you any.  If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? 

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Reply #13 - Dec 5th, 2009 at 1:05pm
 
Andi:

One thing you can try is the following technique. I post this often for newcomers:

Dr. Wright’s Circulatory Technique

I am not sure what mechanism is triggered by this but whatever it is, at least indirectly helps kill the pain. This technique has nothing to do with meditation, relaxation, or psychic ability. It is entirely physical and takes some work. It involves concentrating on trying to redirect a little circulation to the arms, hands, or legs. It can described as a conscious circulatory flexing. Increased circulation will result in a reddening and warming of the hands. As silly as it sounds, try to think of it as filling your hand with redirected blood flow. The important part is that it has to be done without interruption until it has some effect. Do not give up in frustration. It may not work on the first try. Sometimes it can work quicky but it almost always worked after a time. Try experimenting between attacks. You will find that it gets easier with practice.

I was given less than five minutes instruction in the use of this method. The doctor, while placing his arm on his desk, showed me that he could slightly increase his arm and hand circulation. After several attempts, I was able to repeat this procedure and use it successfully. I have had about a 75% success rate shortening these attacks. My 20 minute attacks were often reduced to 10 minutes or less. Once proven that I had a chance to effectively deal with this horror, I always gave it a try as I had nothing to lose but pain.

I used to try to imagine I was pushing blood away from my head into my arm. Use your imagination. There is one man who wrote that his standing barefoot on a concrete floor shortened his attacks. This may be similar as it draws some circulation away from the head. Cold water, exercise, or anything affecting circulation, seems to be worth a try. My suggestion is to not let up immediately when the pain goes. Waiting a minute is probably a good idea. So long as you do not slack off, this has a chance of working.

This technique is very useful while waiting for medication to take effect or when none is available. It costs nothing, is non-invasive, and can be used just about anywhere. It is not a miracle but it helped me deal with this horror. It can be a bit exhausting but the success rate was good enough for me and a cluster headache sufferer will do just about anything to end the pain. It gives us a fighting chance.

I hope this technique is helpful and I wish you the best of luck.

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Reply #14 - Dec 6th, 2009 at 5:02am
 
thank you everyone for the great advice. it's nice having some help and support. also i am 17 for those who wanted to know. the creator of this site, and those who keep it running must be angels
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Reply #15 - Dec 6th, 2009 at 10:03am
 
Might I also suggest you take the cluster quiz on the left.  You called them migraines, but said they come multiple times a day.  That sounds more like cluster than migraine, but it would be helpful to differentiate.  However, as was said, we are quite reluctant to point to specifics before a diagnosis.  If teh cluster quiz points to cluster I would read the oxygen info carefully and take the pertinent information with me to the Dr.  Then if you are indeed diagnosed with cluster don't leave the office without a script for O2.

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Reply #16 - Dec 10th, 2009 at 5:51pm
 
I guess the reason i called them a migraine is because im hesitant to call them clusters at this point.
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Reply #17 - Dec 11th, 2009 at 9:16am
 
Andi,

Warm welcome to ch family. Smiley

Don't be afraid to ask questions. We're here to help each other out. You'll find lots of information, lots of support and lots of people who know exactly what you're dealing with.

Lots of PF days your way,

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Reply #18 - Dec 14th, 2009 at 1:14pm
 
Hello Andi-

I have a best friend named Andi.  She is always there for me when I need help during my headache cycle.

Did you make it to a doctor yet?  We want to be sure you get some help for these headaches.  I started my headaches when I was 14.  My family blew them off as nothing big.  As I got older, they got worse.  More painful.  I don't want to scare you, I just think you are on the right track to getting some medicine that will help ease the pain of your headaches.  It wasn't until I was 27 when I heard of Cluster Headaches and was able to ease my pain.  It was a lonely road to that point and until I found this forum.

Be sure you don't have a more sinister problem, like a tumor or aneurysm up in that head of yours.  And be sure that you do have Cluster Headaches.  (I really hope you don't). 

Keep us posted on your progress.  Were thinking of you.

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Reply #19 - Dec 15th, 2009 at 5:17am
 
I'm new too, Andi.  Seems like a supportive place with a lot of nice folks.  I like it so far.  Hope to see more of you.  Be sure and let us know how the Neurology appointment went.
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Reply #20 - Dec 15th, 2009 at 10:17am
 
My neuoroligist appointment is on the 28th of this month and i can't say that i'm not a little nervous, but i will most definitely keep you posted. i just can't seem to think everyone enough.

i guess I'll tell a little more about myself. i've been having these headaches since i was probably 10. At that time I was being placed into foster care. We all just figured they were due to stress. i remember i went to school every morning wanting to pull out all my hair. i had a hard time concentrating. i was a total recluse those days. keeping to myself. they've only gotten worse. when my parents finally decided to call the doctor, after my constint nagging, they mentioned my vegetarian lifestyle. my parents don't like me being vegetarian so they attribute any of my problems to that. so the doctor decided to diagnose me before even seeing or talking to me.

He decided i must have a protein deficiency and threatened that if i didn't find a way to get more protein in me i'd have to go back to meat  Sad

so because my mom just thinks im a hypo i never really tell her about my pain, choosing to deal with it on my own. then my therapist, the women's a genius, told me about cluster headaches.

so this is a little insight as to what led me here

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Andi,

I have  gotten these headaches since I was ten too.  I am a bit older than you now... LOL!

I hope your appt goes well at the Neuro.  Just go in with as much information possible about your pain.  Mention everything.  Be specific.   It will help your doctor help you.  Keep us posted!

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Reply #22 - Dec 15th, 2009 at 12:59pm
 
Hello Andi-

That is tough.  Getting off to that start would be pretty difficult.  Sounds like your parents need to take all those years of blaming your vegetarian lifestyle and rethink/understand that it is something else.  Wow, it is gonna be hard to recondition their thoughts.  I think they need to go to the neuro with you, so they can hear it from an expert that it isn't protein deficiency.  If your neuro says it's needed protein, please let all of us know here, because looks like your parents cured Cluster Headaches.  Amazing!  Wink

Mucho props to your therapist!  What a gal! 

Take care, and keep us posted!

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Quote:
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Reply #24 - Dec 28th, 2009 at 12:21am
 
Tomorrow morning is my neuro appointment and i'm kind of scared. i'm having an awful week, and i woke up with a kink in my neck so i can't turn my head all the way to the right. so i'm quite irritable. lol. my mom today also frustrated me by calling me a drama queen. i can never tell her when i don't feel well or think something is wrong  Embarrassed so this week is already off to a bad start! but i am relieved the appointment is here! i just wish i didn' t have to wake up so darn early. well i best be running along. i plan to go in prepared with a list of my pain.

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