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Ugly Breakup
Aug 4^th, 2010 at 10:36pm

My live-in girlfriend of 3 years has moved out per our breakup. Too bad for the relationship, but life will go on.

While I was at work, she received the formal eviction notice and began removing all of her furnishings, etc from my home. In addition to her stuff, she chose to take many of my personal belongings. Items that have absolutely no value to her nor anybody else, yet she was vindictive and stole much personal and non-replaceable items of mine....last 10 yrs of filed tax records, credit reports, CD's of family vacations including my son's baby photos, etc., etc.

To my disgusted surprise, she also took my recent CH.com order of my brand new Optimask and black CH.com t-shirt still in the small cardboard box...gone! A bag filled with Imitrex injections, Imitrex pills, Imitrex nasal spray, Prednisone, Verapamil...all gone!!!

I asked my attorney what recourse I have and was told she could just deny taking it and nothing you can do about it, your word vs hers. The good news is that I am not in cycle. The bad news is that whenever I do get hit, I will not be prepared as I once was Angry

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Linda_Howell CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Do not feed the Moderators Posts: 11927 Santa Maria, Ca. Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #1 - Aug 4^th, 2010 at 11:01pm I am so sorry...man, that has to hurt. Check your PMS
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Reply #2 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 1:32am

LasVegas wrote on Aug 4^th, 2010 at 10:36pm:

he chose to take many of my personal belongings. Items that have absolutely no value to her nor anybody else, yet she was vindictive and stole much personal and non-replaceable items of mine....last 10 yrs of filed tax records, credit reports, CD's of family vacations including my son's baby photos, etc., etc.

To my disgusted surprise, she also took my recent CH.com order of my brand new Optimask and black CH.com t-shirt still in the small cardboard box...gone! A bag filled with Imitrex injections, Imitrex pills, Imitrex nasal spray, Prednisone, Verapamil...all gone!!!

what a bullshit thing to do to somebody Angry

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Lettucehead CH.com Old Timer Offline I am very blessed... Posts: 293 Iowa Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #3 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 1:42am Yeah, that's just mean! I mean, I understand anger, but maliciousness? That's just wrong... At least you're well out of that relationship...
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Mike NZ CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Oxygen rocks! D3 too! Posts: 3785 Auckland, New Zealand Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #4 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 2:18am It's more than just mean. By taking the medication that the ex knows is used to treat CHs it is a deliberate attempt to hurt a person, just like taking the other non-replaceable personal possessions. It really shows what sort of a person she is.
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-johnny- CH.com Sponsor Offline theres no smoking on the dock Posts: 1642 fayette county ohio Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #5 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 2:28am Mike NZ wrote on Aug 5^th, 2010 at 2:18am: It's more than just mean. By taking the medication that the ex knows is used to treat CHs it is a deliberate attempt to hurt a person, just like taking the other non-replaceable personal possessions. It really shows what sort of a person she is. yeah really
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M.R. CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 598 Grand Rapids, Mi. Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #6 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 8:29am Having been there, I know how that sucks. Hell hath no fury...ect. Quote: Check your PMS Sounds like she left already, Linda... Mike
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QnHeartMM CH.com Sponsor Offline I AM a Phoenix! Posts: 1783 San Diego, CA Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #8 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 9:18am Am not sure why your attorney didn't suggest but I would file a police report on the off-chance she has the items in her possession. Would also suggest you check dumpsters in your area, and the area near where she moved, quickly, before they are collected.
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Chad CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Posts: 738 Emmaus, PA Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #9 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 9:24am Too bad there are lawyers and judges to ruin it for us all I'd have her duck taped to the wall and demand for that Optimask and everything else and then let her go. If your lawyer asks about it, you can just say, it's her word against mine End of sarcasm!
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LasVegas CH.com Sponsor Offline Episodic CH since 11 yrs old, now 50. Posts: 2020 north of the 60th parallel Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #10 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 10:42am All of your replies have been very comforting to read. I feel so alone when all of my very personal belongings including CH meds have been stolen. I knew you would all have a warm heart and make me feel a bit better with your supportive comments. I needed your comments and truly thank you all
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-johnny- CH.com Sponsor Offline theres no smoking on the dock Posts: 1642 fayette county ohio Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #11 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 10:58am she did steal prescription drugs. im glad we could make you feel better
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LasVegas CH.com Sponsor Offline Episodic CH since 11 yrs old, now 50. Posts: 2020 north of the 60th parallel Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #12 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 11:02am none of them were samples, they were all prescription...Imitrex injections/nasal spray and pills.....Prednisone...Verapamil....and also took some of my prescribed Albuterol inhalers for respiratory problems.
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Chad CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Posts: 738 Emmaus, PA Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #13 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 11:28am Stealing your Albuterol is a bit much. That is serious, not that clusters aren't, but c'mon. This woman is a witch.
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Re: Ugly Breakup
Reply #14 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 11:29am

Breakups always suck but dam that is just evil since I assume she has seen you with a full CH hit and knows the kind of pain it inflicts, we all say we would not wish this on out worse enemy, OK most of us say it but to really do something like this? I hope that Karma pays her back in spades for doing such a thing. My x-wife’s first husband had dug out a wine cellar under his house and they filled it over several years with some really good wines and when they split he took all the wine and her grandmothers crystal then filled the fine cellar back up and said it never existed. I just keep thinking that Karma will pay back people like these that do such evil things to people that they supposedly cared for at one time.

Hang in there and I hope she comes to her senses and returns everything.

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Reply #15 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 11:55am

QnHeartMM wrote on Aug 5^th, 2010 at 9:18am:

Am not sure why your attorney didn't suggest but I would file a police report on the off-chance she has the items in her possession.

Would also suggest you check dumpsters in your area, and the area near where she moved, quickly, before they are collected.

Spoken like the true wife of a police officer!
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Re: Ugly Breakup
Reply #16 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 2:17pm

LasVegas wrote on Aug 4^th, 2010 at 10:36pm:

My live-in girlfriend of 3 years has moved out per our breakup. Too bad for the relationship, but life will go on.

While I was at work, she received the formal eviction notice and began removing all of her furnishings, etc from my home. In addition to her stuff, she chose to take many of my personal belongings. Items that have absolutely no value to her nor anybody else, yet she was vindictive and stole much personal and non-replaceable items of mine....last 10 yrs of filed tax records, credit reports, CD's of family vacations including my son's baby photos, etc., etc.

To my disgusted surprise, she also took my recent CH.com order of my brand new Optimask and black CH.com t-shirt still in the small cardboard box...gone! A bag filled with Imitrex injections, Imitrex pills, Imitrex nasal spray, Prednisone, Verapamil...all gone!!!

I asked my attorney what recourse I have and was told she could just deny taking it and nothing you can do about it, your word vs hers. The good news is that I am not in cycle. The bad news is that whenever I do get hit, I will not be prepared as I once was Angry

Can you provide receipts for the items? Maybe if you could, you could file a police report and prove the items are yours? If not, do you know where she moved to? My ex did something similar, and took about half of my belongings. I showed up at his door, called the cops and said my bf and I were living together and he kicked me out but wouldn't let me in to get my shit. It was my word against his, and they told him that he had to let me in to get my belongings. Didn't matter that I wasn't on the lease. It was a shit lie to tell to the cops, but it did get me inside to get my stuff.

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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #17 - Aug 5^th, 2010 at 5:59pm That's beyond ugly. Here's hoping her luck runs out soon. God! Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to or Charlie
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Chris H CH.com Sponsor Offline CH with CH Posts: 130 Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #19 - Oct 29^th, 2010 at 9:39am Sounds like you made the right choice in the firstplace. I would definitely call the cops to file a report that she stole your prescription drugs, with a specific list of the drugs. Just know that if she does have them, she could be in some serious trouble. -Chris
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mikstudie CH.com Old Timer Offline Beastmaster Posts: 284 Westland Mi. Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #20 - Oct 29^th, 2010 at 10:34am Biaaatch!!!!! I have a couple friends that may help you out, Smith and Wesson...
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Re: Ugly Breakup
Reply #21 - Oct 29^th, 2010 at 11:34am

QnHeartMM wrote on Aug 5^th, 2010 at 9:18am:

Am not sure why your attorney didn't suggest but I would file a police report on the off-chance she has the items in her possession.

Would also suggest you check dumpsters in your area, and the area near where she moved, quickly, before they are collected.

Sound like some sound advise....

Trust me, she will get her's... I don't know the where as or what for, but she sounds like someone you are better off without anyways.

I'll keep you in my Prayers... and trust me she will suffer for this... keep your head up

Peace, Blessings and Prayers
Luv & Hugs Smiley

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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #22 - Oct 29^th, 2010 at 11:50am The last post on this thread before today was back in August. Just a heads up...
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Arde CH.com Junior Offline I Love CH.com! Posts: 76 Dayton, TX. Gender:	Re: Ugly Breakup Reply #23 - Oct 29^th, 2010 at 9:57pm Melissa wrote on Oct 29^th, 2010 at 11:50am: The last post on this thread before today was back in August. Just a heads up... Time Warp What goes around, comes around.
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