Adam D.
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Against the advice of my girlfriend and my better demons...
viet,
"If tea works maybe you just have a head ache." Was this your response when people first touted the efficacy of energy drinks in assisting aborts as well? After reading as much as I have been able to read around here I am as surprised as anyone that hot tea works for me, and I am even more surprised that the happy accident of finding it ever happened. If I have learned only a single maxim since I have been submersed in learning here and at CB it is: the beast is different for everyone.
Doubt that it(hot tea) works for me, but please don't doubt my pain - had enough of that ignorance throughout the years from people who have no idea what it is like... people who presumably love/care about me and actually see how it affects me. Heck, I don't know why it works for me; placebo(though the 15 years or so that it has helped seems to discount placebo), caffeine and anti-oxidants commonly found in tea, the heat? I don't care; all I care about is it seems to work for me.
98%(370 of 378) of the time(only 10 calender months of HA journal - 396 HAs over 277 days) it works faster than the most common length of my untreated/unsuccessfully aborted HAs(45 to 60 mins). Of my 396 HAs, I treated 378 with hot tea. Of those 378 HAs, 370 were aborted in 20 to 23 minutes from the first sip of tea. The 8 that didn't abort with tea all lasted between 45 and 60 minutes. Of the 18 untreated HAs 16 lasted between 45 and 60 minutes, 1 lasted 90 minutes, and one was just over 2 hours. Thanks for pushing me to a more thorough statistical analysis, pretty interesting stuff.
It is possible you are onto something. Maybe 93%(370 of 396) of my HAs only last about 20 minutes, and the tea does nothing at all. Though, from memory, this doesn't fit with the length of HAs(45 to 60mins) during the 4 or so years prior to finding and using tea as an abortive. Certainly something I will try to look more closely at during my next cycle, but it isn't likely, for obvious reasons, that I will choose to just suffer through a bunch of HAs in the interest of science.
Brew,
No chip on my shoulder. I am pleased as punch with my life and the people and things in it. I may face some fairly extreme financial realities, but I am, if nothing else, happy in my destitution. I didn't insult you or anyone else here. I was giving some constructive criticism because if a newbie is treated like this regularly around here you won't have many staying. I'd say that pretty much defeats the purpose of this place.
No I didn't ask for help, but then a support group isn't always about asking for and receiving help. Quite often it is simply having people to listen, share experiences, and ask questions in an attempt to better understand a shared problem. I shared a small portion of my experience, and sarcasm was one of the responses... if sarcasm is considered supportive I must have misunderstood the definition of both support and sarcasm. I notice you, nor anyone else, asked what I would do "without traditional treatment/pain relief" or, for that matter, what I have been doing all these years "without traditional treatment/pain relief", but you were quick to post, and were obviously comfortable posting, a completely dismissive sarcastic reply(twice) that helps no one. That being the case, one wonders why you even bothered to post at all.
As far as strutting... I am not here looking to impress anyone. I was excited about being pain free for more than a day (rarely two) for the first time in nearly 300 days, finally finding a name for what I have been dealing with all these years, and finding a place with people who understand the pain and fear involved. If that or my reaction to some, frankly, questionable behavior for this environment is what you want to call strutting then I guess I am guilty.
To cast aspersions as you have: I don't know whether you are just a sarcastic, insensitive person by nature, or if you are merely projecting/transferring your bitterness onto me. This is fun... I can see why you resorted to it in your defense. That pointing out your insensitivity lead you to making this personal, by resorting to insult, says quite a bit about you. That your response to constructive criticism is to become defensive is another issue altogether, but, then, I guess it takes all kinds.
Linda,
Going from "At any rate I will be dealing with CH without traditional treatment/pain relief." to "in unnecessary pain" is quite a stretch. It makes the assumption that, in nearly 20 years, I haven't found some non-traditional thing(s) that work for me. The other alternative is you think your way is the only way. In either case, it is obvious you responded to what you think my statement means as opposed to what I actually said.
Yes, when finances had already been mentioned as an issue and followed with the quote you decided to focus on, asking "Why would you settle?" is quite unsupportive and bordering on obtuse. Not being able to somehow scratch together the money for a Dr., in all the years before I self-diagnosed or after I self-diagnosed, while dealing with the "most painful condition known to man" makes it fairly obvious my finances are extremely tight. At which point asking "Why would you settle?" feels more like a jab at my economic situation than constructive support. Assuming that which is cheap to you is a viable resource for someone else is quite presumptuous. Your "eye roll" aside, I accept I may have been overly sensitive in this regard. Do you accept you may not have been sensitive enough?
I am bugetted very nearly down to the last dollar. I have been looking at "busting" because it offers the closest thing to a "cure"/long term cessation of CH, thereby being worth sacrifices(more rice and beans, less meat) in my day to day life. While I can get the 15 or so dollars for a spore syringe with a little effort/budget adjusting over the span of a couple weeks I am wondering where I will get the the additional money for the set up - cake jars, vermiculite, perlite, fruiting chamber, etc. Saving over the short term would seem to be the answer; the only problem with that is there is "always something" - for example: get a little bit ahead(emphasis on little) and the serpentine belt on my truck breaks(happened 3 weeks ago). Thankfully I can replace something that simple myself, but it was still close to $40 I could ill-afford to spend.
Not playing a poor me/pity party thing here. Trust me discussing my finances, to any extent with my family let alone strangers, isn't something I enjoy or think is appropriate. Simply illustrating that my financial limitations are that acute on a month to month basis. FWIW, that, and the fact that I have found some very simple things that work pretty well for me, is why I would "settle".
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