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Rest in Peace, JimLaff
Dec 8th, 2010 at 10:34pm
 
It was very sad to open up facebook and read this today.  I have fond memories of Jim and our sharing an order of fried pickles when he came to visit me here in Dallas.  He was a very memorable person with a love for life.  I know that a few of you here know him as well so I thought you all should know. 

From the Delco Times:

James F. (“Jim”) Lafferty of Springfield, 40, passed away Dec. 1, 2010 at home after fighting a courageous battle with prostate cancer. True to his nature, he never lost his upbeat, positive attitude . When asked how he was, Jim would always reply, “You know me. I’ve never had a bad day.”

...Jim did not let his illness define him, instead he passionately promoted prostate cancer awareness. Jim walked for three years in the “Gary Papa Run 4 Your Life” run/walk in Philadelphia. This past June, when Jim participated in the walk, despite his pain, he was the top fundraiser for the third year in a row. He also shared his experiences and advice for others battling the disease.

Jim graduated from Malvern Preparatory School, Class of 1990 and from Green Mountain College in Poultney, Vermont Class of 1994 and made lifelong friends at both.

He was an owner and Sales Manager at Pennsylvania Machine Works in Aston where he worked alongside family and friends every day.

He was also a talented drummer in bands, playing with both Bigg Romeo and Love Train. He loved being on stage with both.

Jim’s beloved wife Jen and 5 yr old son Gavin were his daily inspiration. Despite any pain he felt, he always found a smile and words of encouragement for them both. He was outgoing, loving, selfless and passionate about life.

He loved his family and friends, music, the Eagles, spending time in Avalon, NJ, cooking out, parties and enjoying the company of friends. Jim’s presence would always “light up a room.”

Jim is survived by his loving and supportive wife Jennifer (nee Fulton) and beloved son Gavin, both of Springfield, parents Ronald and Suzanne (nee Keenan) Lafferty of Newtown Square, brother Ron (Dean) Lafferty of Springfield, sister Suzanne (Ron) Flynn of West Chester, father-in-law and mother-in-law, Lee and Denise Fulton of Springfield, sister-in-law Stephanie (Stephen) Lucas of Springfield, nieces and nephews Jaimie, Mandi, Timmy, Erin, Connor, Sean, Ava and Charlie.

All services were held this week at St. Francis of Assisi Roman Catholic Church, Saxer Avenue, Springfield. A Funeral Mass was celebrated Tuesday. Burial was at Ss. Peter and Paul Cemetery, Sproul Rd., Marple Twp.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Jim’s name can be sent to The Four Diamonds Fund to help children battling cancer at: A120, PO Box 852, Hershey, PA 17033-0852
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Reply #1 - Dec 8th, 2010 at 10:50pm
 
I'm terribly sorry!  I hadn't seen Jim posting in a long time, but had no idea he was battling cancer.  I'm praying for his family.

Thanks for letting us know Donna.

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Reply #2 - Dec 8th, 2010 at 11:00pm
 
Notes to the family can be written at this link.

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Reply #3 - Dec 8th, 2010 at 11:11pm
 
Thanks for the link  Jim was a  terrific guy and I  have a lot of memories of him that I'd be glad to share  with the family in private. 

He fought so hard....I am so so sorry he lost that battle.   Cry
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Reply #4 - Dec 8th, 2010 at 11:15pm
 
I hope this is temporary but all I get is this:

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Reply #5 - Dec 8th, 2010 at 11:53pm
 
He was the same age as my son. So young to have died of prostate cancer. Sad
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Reply #6 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 6:52am
 
Oh wow, that sucks. Sad

Very sad to hear this and my prayers go out to his family and friends, including those of us who knew him...
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Reply #7 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 7:21am
 
He was a very informative and helpful guy with awareness, and of course upbeat sharing about a treatment from the Bahamas.  Always open to questions. 

Thank you, Donna.  Much more to him I see.  Very sad.
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Reply #8 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 8:32am
 
Linda_Howell wrote on Dec 8th, 2010 at 11:15pm:
I hope this is temporary but all I get is this:

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I got the same thing, Linda.

Condolences to Jim's family - such sad news.

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Reply #9 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 11:09am
 
Thanks for the post... so sad, at such a young age.

I will lift his survivors in Prayer..

Peace & Blessings
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Reply #10 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 2:44pm
 
Met Jim once.....seemed like a great guy. God speed.
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Reply #11 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 3:21pm
 
Keeping Jim and all who knew and loved him in our thoughts and prayers.
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Reply #12 - Dec 9th, 2010 at 6:03pm
 
Our deepest condolences to all the surviving family and friends.
RIP Jim, so very sorry to read this today  Cry Cry

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Reply #13 - Dec 10th, 2010 at 1:16am
 
I'm very sorry to hear this.

Although I never had the privilege of meeting him, by all accounts of those who knew Jim, he was a fine man.

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Reply #14 - Dec 10th, 2010 at 6:33am
 
My sincere condolences to Jim's family and friends.
God Speed Jim.

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Reply #15 - Dec 10th, 2010 at 7:38pm
 
My condolences too.

Much too short a stay for him.

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