RichardN
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Someone will be along with their experience/knowledge of Tramadol . . . I haven't used.
Regarding your query on how to deal with CH & your daughter. YES! . . . they are scary for her . . . and for us . . . especially if you start having multiple hits daily (and nightly). Here's how I dealt with it:
I agreed to pick up my grandson (Alex . . then 8, now 14) from school and stop by the Dairy Queen on the way back to drop him off at his mom's office. Well, of course you have to get there 20 min. early to wait in the (growing) two lanes of cars for the pick-up . . . I spent the time cleaning out the build-up of rubble/trash and assorted tools n such . . . had the windows and side door open on my van . . . was a cool day, so most of the other cars were running . . . exhaust fumes are one of my triggers. By the time he got in the van, could feel him coming . . . less than a mile to the Dairy Queen, but two redlights and a high school (also letting out) in between. By the time we got there (about 8 min) . . attack was at Kip 5 and ramping . . . had my mask (1 litre bag) on and huffing the 02 when ordering at the speaker and picking up our treats . . . then to a parking space where I rocked inside, danced outside, apologized for the cursing . . . . but most important, explained what was happening to me . . in detail (hypothalmus, vessel dilation,tri-geminal nerve) . . . and that the 02 would make it stop in a few minutes. From start to finish, was about a 45 minute Kip 8. He stayed calm and took me at my word. His only comment to my daughter after I dropped him off was, . . . "poor grandpa" . . . and just dealt with it as one of those things we sometimes have to suffer.
I will note that we as a family have had lifelong shared, often crippling pain. I, my oldest daughter and grandson are afflicted with a very rare skin condition . . . EB (Epidermolysis-Bulosa, simplex) . . simply put, the layers of our skin aren't stuck together normally and a minimal amount of friction causes blisters, especially feet and hands . . . he is always crippled at the end of the school week . . hands/fingers blistered where he holds his pencil, a dozen or so blisters on each foot. It's a limiting, frustrating condition. We can do anything anyone can . .. just not for very long (when I was drafted in 66', told them I could fly a plane or a desk . . as long as I didn't have to walk too far to get to either . . 4F of course. So we are used to "that's the way it is . . . deal with it"
She needs to know that you are seeking professional help that will aid in bringing these headaches under control . . . if CH . . .they won't kill you and there are many options to help prevent attacks and abort attacks so you don't have to endure such pain. It's the "not knowing" that's the scary part for all of us, kids especially.
Be Safe, PFDANs
Richard
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