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I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over
Jun 20^th, 2011 at 1:59pm

Good Afternoon Family...

I have received several emails inquiring as to rather or not I was okay. Yes my Dear Family, I am okay, and kind of ashamed for not seeking Prayers and Blessings from you.

Although I never tire of being there for anyone of you, I somehow got it in my mind that I have been putting to much on you guys; because I felt that I myself have been heavily burden this pass year... In my heart I know that I should have, and that I can come to you guys with anything at anytime.. Thanks to many of you, over the years, I have cross a many waters, without bridges. But I somehow convinced my self to take the hard way around... and not share my feelings with you.

With the Home Going Celebrations of my Sister, Birt and Grand daughter Sheena, and my Niece Shanna's Breast Cancer last year... My on and off, mostly on, cycle I started a downward spiral.. than just a little over a month ago, I celebrated the Home Going Celebration of one of my Best Friends who died of Brain Cancer; and the downward spiral just spent out of control...and I started my own self pity party..

Thanks to all of you who Pray for this entire family all the time (which I'm included).. and a special thanks to Linda H., Grandma_Sweet_Boy (Carol), Callico & His Wife, Linda and my Seester Jackie...
I decided that the Pity Party is over, and thanked God for the beautiful years I had with each of those that I love... because things could have been...

Be Blessed
LadyLuv

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Potter CH.com Alumnus Offline Team MOOSE DROOL Stinky Stuff on a Hook Prostaff Posts: 3600 Blgs.Mt. Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #1 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 2:19pm Missed ya. Potter
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Jimi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't feed the moderators Posts: 4925 Madisonville, KY Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #2 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 2:48pm There comes a time in all of our lives that we just get overwhelmed with life. In your case, with death of loved ones in such a short period of time. Sometimes you just have to back away and work through it. I know where you get your strength and I know that you will be ok. Welcome back and see you next month.
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Callico CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Author of "Stranded at Romson's Lodge Posts: 4916 Aurora IL Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #3 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 3:00pm Glad you are back. JC
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LadyLuv CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 1495 Champaign, IL Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #4 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 3:00pm Thanks Guys... I missed you also... Yes, I will C U next month... Peace & Blessings Ruthie
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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #5 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 3:38pm So glad to see you back my Seester. Bless your heart. So many losses.....my heart aches for you. We love you dearly...please, lean on us as we have on you. I'll see you soon...can't wait to hug your neck!!!! Bet we have a few laughs too... Much love, Jackie
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Grandma_Sweet_Boy CH.com Alumnus Offline What Goes Around Comes Around! Posts: 4496 Georgetown,Ontario Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #6 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 4:16pm You just made my day, pretty lady! I'm so darned glad to see you back! Hugs Carol
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Mosaicwench CH.com Sponsor Offline www.mosaicwench.com Posts: 3507 Near Milwaukee WI, USA Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #7 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 5:34pm It's so easy to withdraw when things get bad. I'm glad you're back. Love you sweetie - and looking forward to seeing you soon.
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Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over
Reply #8 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 5:53pm

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I somehow got it in my mind that I have been putting to much on you guys;

We forgive you for your erroneous thinking Ruthie. Don't ever let it happen again though. Wink

I guess I can only speak for myself, but I want to know when a family member here is going through a rough time. Even if all we can do is pray, make you smile, let you vent and maybe even offer some advice that you hadn't thought of.

You are loved around this place my dear friend. Can't wait to hug you next month.

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LadyLuv CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 1495 Champaign, IL Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #9 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 6:05pm Right back at you guys.... I can't wait for some Cluster Family Hugs... Luv You All Very Much....
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Guiseppi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline San Diego to Florida 05-16-2011 Posts: 12063 SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA USA Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #10 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 6:22pm Can't wait for my loud, long hug from my Ladyluv next month. Jowels (my CH stuffed dog!) has been on my dashboard since the last convention and will be making the trip with me in July. You've been missed lady. Joe
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deltadarlin CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 3823 Downsville LA Gender:	Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over Reply #11 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 7:54pm Now Ruthie, if you can't lean on us, what are we here for? Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to or Can't wait to see you in Nashville! really hoping that you are going to be our auctioneer again! love, me
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Reply #12 - Jun 20^th, 2011 at 10:11pm

I love you Ruthie! And take comfort in the fact that home is never far away and that those who have gone there, are still around. You just can't see or hear them, but they sure do worry about you! Angels always do ya know. Wink

My prayers and love to you my friend, and you never have, and never will, put too much burden on any of us here! Got that? Good! Wink

Hugs and smooches,

melly

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Re: I'm Back Family... Pity Party is Over
Reply #16 - Jun 21^st, 2011 at 9:56am

deltadarlin wrote on Jun 20^th, 2011 at 7:54pm:

Now Ruthie, if you can't lean on us, what are we here for?

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I will make every attempt to keep it together, and if I find myself falling again.. I will reach out for my CH Family... U Silly Willie's made me cry Cry

, and I've did enough of that... only this time, they were tears of joy.

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I love you Ruthie! And take comfort in the fact that home is never far away and that those who have gone there, are still around. You just can't see or hear them, but they sure do worry about you! Angels always do ya know. Wink

My prayers and love to you my friend, and you never have, and never will, put too much burden on any of us here! Got that? Good! Wink

Hugs and smooches,
Smileymelly

Yes Mel, I do know that my Angels are watching over me... But I had my eyes closed and didn't see them.. My eyes are now open and slowing but surely, my strength is building and I can see the smiles of my Angles Smiley

and also, the love of my CH Family..

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Jowels (my CH stuffed dog!

Shame on you Joseppi... You Stuffed Your Doggie Grin

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Luv You Guys and, and I Pray that it be Gods Will for me to see you next month...

Luv & Hugs
Peace & Blessings

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Reply #21 - Jun 29^th, 2011 at 9:33pm

My dear Chocolate Betty!!

I cannot say how sad I am to read of all the losses you've had and so close together. I can't begin to imagine what you've been through recently, I wish there was some way to make it better.

I'm glad you remembered how many people love you here....there's no shame in being human! (I find myself saying that a lot lately)

Love you my dear, OXO
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