You'll get plenty of support here at CH.com...  We know what you're going through...  and it doesn't need to be that way. 

There are several treatments and combinations of treatments that will give you back a good quality of life.

However, we're not clairvoyant, so you'll need to tell us a bit more about your cluster headaches and what other medications you've tried to control them.

If you want the clue bird to do a low pass on your husband about what it means to have a cluster headache... show him the video of Chuck Setzco, a.k.a. "ClusterChuck" having an attack at the following link. 

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I would like to point out that oxygen therapy at flow rates that support hyperventilation is very effective at aborting a cluster headache if used early and properly at the onset of an attack.

Unfortunately in this video of Chuck's attack, the oxygen flow rate Chuck was using was far too low and the reservoir bag on the mask was too small.
That made it impossible for Chuck to ventilate his lungs with sufficient volumes of oxygen to obtain a rapid abort of his cluster headache.

The low flow rate and small reservoir bag on the non-rebreathing mask may have been giving Chuck sufficient oxygen, but as the volume of lung ventilation was constrained, he was unable to cast off sufficient CO2.  The longer he used this mask, the higher his blood CO2 levels climbed.  That extended the time required to achieve an abort and likely allowed the pain to climb higher than necessary.

Take care and please keep us posted.

V/R, Batch