Hoppy, you not butting in at all. This could not be more serious and I appreciate everyone's answers. Nothing would thrill me more than to be misdiagnosed and have a magic fix.
Though I had a previous diagnosis for CH, I am going to another specialist in a few weeks for another. I want to know for certain what is causing these headaches.
The quiz was one of the first things I did. Here are my responses:
#1) Do your headaches normally last LESS THAN 15 minutes?
Never
#2) Do your headaches normally last MORE THAN 4 hours?
I would say no, but they have. To be honest, I have never timed them, but my wife is going to start with the next cycle.
#3) Do your headaches normally switch sides from day to day or during a headache?
No
#4) When you have a headache, do you normally seek a quiet, dark place?
No, but I do separate myself from the family and I can not say I want bright lights or loud music.
#5) When you have a headache, do you normally want to be around other people?
Never
#6) When you have a headache, can you normally lay down and be motionless?
Not a chance.
#7) When you have a headache, can you normally go to sleep to make it go away?
Not a chance during the headache. Sleep is not an option. However, if I see the signs I can sometime rest and avert one.
#8) When you have a headache, do you normally experience nausea?
No
#9) Are your headaches always on the same side of your head?
They have always been on the right side until this last cycle. I had one the left for the first time.
#10) Do your headaches normally wake you up from a sound sleep?
No. They would if they were during my sleep. They almost always come at about 6:00pm.
#11) Do your headaches normally occur at the same time of the year and same times each day?
Same time each day and the cycles currently come about 3 months apart and last for 3 days for 3 weeks a week apart. In other words, 3 days on and 4 off for 3 weeks.
#12) Do you normally experience a stuffy nostril on the same side of the face as the pain?
My face swells and I have congestion in my eye. I will have to watch next time for congestion in my nose.
#13) Do you normally experience a "droopy" eyelid on the same side of the face as the pain?
More like the whole side of my face.
#14) Do you normally go from totally pain free to totally debilitated in 5-10 minutes?
As far as the headache, yes. However, I can feel it coming in my back and my shoulder of the side it is coming on.
#15) Do you normally go from totally debilitated to totally pain free in 5-10 minutes?
Again, for the headache, yes. However, my whole body suffers through the whole cycle and for a day or two after.
#16) When you have a headache, do you walk, pace, bash your head, thrash, scream?
yes, yes, yes, yes and yes.

I do not expect a diagnose here, but all comments from those who also suffer or have specific understanding (a spouse for example) are welcome.
Thank you for listening. It has been a lonely journey thus far.
Michael