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You don't appreciate how many women have made your statement--pain worst than child birth without anesthesia!
Don' be upset with you doc. Very few docs receive training/education in complex headache disorders. While the odds are that you have Cluster, this is a condition which is not cured (sorry!) but can be effectively controlled. That suggests that lining up a headache specialist now would be wise for you will need the skills & knowledge such folks have for a long time.
AND there are a number of disorders which mimic Cluster which are not headache disorders. This means you should not try self-diagnosis and/or self-treatment. (We have clinical studies showing how folks have wandered about for 5-6yrs+ before they found effective treatment, trying one doc after another. So, get a good start now!)
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LOCATING HEADACHE SPECIALIST
1. Yellow Pages phone book: look for "Headache Clinics" in the M.D. section and look under "neurologist" where some docs will list speciality areas of practice.
2. Call your hospital/medical center. They often have an office to assist in finding a physician. You may have to ask for the social worker/patient advocate.
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; On-line screen to find a physician.
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Look for "Physician Finder" search box. They will send a list of M.D.s for your state.I suggest using this source for several reasons: first, we have read several messages from people who, even seeing neurologists, are unhappy with the quality of care and ATTITUDES they have encountered; second, the clinical director of the Jefferson (Philadelphia) Headache Clinic said, in late 1999, that upwards of 40%+ of U.S. doctors have poor training in treating headache and/or hold attitudes about headache ("hysterical female disorder") which block them from sympathetic and effective work with the patient; third, it's necessary to find a doctor who has experience, skill, and a set of attitudes which give hope of success. This is the best method I know of to find such a physician.
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NEW certification program for "Headache Medicine" by the United Council for Neurologic Subspecialties, an independent, non-profit, professional medical organization.
Since this is a new program, the initial listing is limited and so it should be checked each time you have an interest in locating a headache doctor.
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But let's assume it's Cluster. As you seek a specialist you can also start to learn about how it's treated, etc.
Print the PDF file, below. It's a list of the most comonly used meds and, while these names won't mean anything now, when you start dealing with a specialist, this infro will be a good tool to discuss your options.
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Spend time getting familiar of the material here--just dig around in the various boxes. Also explore:
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. Two books, one free, available as an e-book; second aimed at professionals. Section of many journal articles. Site worth exploring. Robbins is one of the leading headache docs in the Chicago area.
[Likely a bit deep right now but a good resource as your knowledge gows.]
Bottom line: don't lose your cool! The pain doesn't translate into seriousness! We've all gone thru this one and survived once we learn how to control the problem.