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Apr 7th, 2016 at 10:03am
 
Hi all,
Not a cluster sufferer, but my husband is. We are 3 days into this round, but it's different. He used to get one attack every 3 months or so, and then months with nothing. Only once did he have more than one attack in a row.
Now he had several attacks in the morning, called 911 got oxygen & a trip to the er where he was given Imitrex. No attacks really the next day and now several this am, gave a shot of Imitrex, worked for 1.5 hours and then another hit anyway. Seeing a neuro today. I will not leave without oxygen. Terrified.
He is on day two of d3, 50,000 dose both days.
Definitely feel like I'm falling into a pit.
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Reply #1 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 1:01pm
 
Can,

Welcome to CH.Com. Every Clusterhead here has the greatest respect and appreciation for those who support us, so a big thank you.

You say your husband is on day 2 of a 50,000 iu daily dose of D3. You and he need to read the thread "123 days pain free...." In the Medications & Treatments section here.

There is a lot of reading but it will be worth it. It sets out the full D3 Regimen as recommended by Batch. It is important that the regimen is followed in full, or as close to as possible.

Batch's regimen has benefited a lot if us here but you have to do it right and give it time to work. Once it starts to work your husband will have to stay on it forever.

Let us know how you got on with the Neuro today.

Mind each other,

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Reply #2 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 3:45pm
 
Hi Can,

You say you are not a SH sufferer, when in reality, the people who see their loved ones go though this is a sufferer. I speak from experience as my girlfriend of 10 years goes through all the attacks with me. You may not suffer the pains that the CH'ers do, but you suffer seeing your loved ones suffer.

I cannot tell you enough how much appreciation I have for support.

I went through a time years ago when that support was absent. Living in hell without any type of understanding was the worst point in my life.

You have my respect.

Michael
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Reply #3 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 3:55pm
 
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Is he under care of a headache specialist? If not, important that he have good work-up to coinfirm that that you are dealing with Cluster and to develop a treatment plan.

Dependinng on ER and oxygen is inadequate with Cluster which is increasing in frequency/severity.
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Reply #4 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 4:44pm
 
Thank you all for your responses. It is so good to feel less alone.

Neuro went better than expected. Last time we went to a neuro he just brushed it off as migraines. This time we described everything and he said "that is typical of clusters", and it was a ray of sunshine for me. We left with a prescription for O2 which is being delivered later today, with the correct mask.

He also prescribed indomethacin which I wasn't familiar with, but quick searches around this board seem to give it a "meh" at best?
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Reply #5 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 5:01pm
 
Can,

Great news about the Neuro. It's such a relief to get one who actually undestands Clusters.

I tried Indomethacin a long time ago and it didn't do much for me. However, others have had good results. We're all different and what works for one may not for another.

Did you discuss D3 with the Neuro at all ? Did he prescribe any abortives ?

Good news on the Oxygen. I would strongly recommend the mask on sale here (see CH.com store above left). It is designed specifically for CH and is much more efficient than a standard mask.

You sound more positive which is good. There is plenty of expertise here, so stay that way.

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Reply #6 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 5:13pm
 
Neuro prescribed Imitrex in a 12 mg single dose, and we already have the 6 mg auto injector here from an ER prescription. Not sure how to feel about the larger dose, but the 6 mg dose aborted one attack, but he still had another under 2 hours later. Is this normal?

Didn't discuss the D3 with the Neuro, I don't know how. My mind was mush, solely focused on getting O2 (which should be delivered within the hour- depending on NYC traffic.  Cheesy)
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Reply #7 - Apr 7th, 2016 at 5:48pm
 
Can,

I don't know about Imitrex, I've never used it. Some people split the injections to make them go further.  Maz, from the UK knows a lot about it. I'm sure she will give you advice.

Very understandable about your conversation with the Neuro. Never mind, read up on D3 as mentioned above.

Make sure the Oxygen tank is set up and ready for use beside the bed tonight. It needs to be to hand and operated at 15ltrs/minute to get the quickest relief.

Also, read through the yellow tab above, top left of the page, entitled Oxygen Info.

Wishing you both a peaceful night. You've both had quite a day.

Peter.
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Reply #8 - Apr 8th, 2016 at 4:29am
 
12mg? Wow! That sounds much to much. Many folks here use just half of a 6mg injection. It will save a lot on the prescription cost and a lot of chest/heart pain.
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Reply #9 - Apr 9th, 2016 at 8:51pm
 
Glad to report a PFNAD yesterday. Today was less ideal, a hard time getting to sleep last night, and 2 daytime hits (aborted with that sweet sweet O2 we finally have). Considering taking melatonin tonight to help that out, as tomorrow is a work day- where the O2 wont be available. Nerves all around with this beast.
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Reply #10 - Apr 10th, 2016 at 1:51am
 
A simple abortive for CH is Caffeine at relatively higher levels. Does not work for everybody but it helps with mine 80% of the time. You can try energy drinks like Monster or Rockstar that have 120+ mg of caffeine with Taurine.

I know it is pretty basic but can be really helpful at the workplace instead of bringing the 02 (which I do bring during my tough weeks) and can easily be taken with the imitrex dose if needed.
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Reply #11 - Apr 10th, 2016 at 2:38am
 
Can wrote, Considering taking melatonin tonight to help that out.

Melatonin 5-15mg before going to bed, can take a couple of weeks before it kicks in.

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Reply #12 - Apr 10th, 2016 at 3:13am
 
Hiya Can...

Any particular reason O2 NOT available at work? I used to drag an E-tank with me EVERY day...some folks thought it funny...some folks thought it sad...some folks puzzled...some folks delighted...some folks...well...WHAT???? It really didn't matter...as it got me thu the day...right next to my desk!

If you can't take it into the facility for some whatever reason...which just might be an affront to "reasonable accommodation"...and actionable.....can ya leave it in your car in the parking lot and "visit"...like smokers do outside the "sacred" facility????

I see my sarcasm is showing...but it pisses me off when "normals" restrict what clusterheads need to function....just.like.them. Don't accept "you can't do that"...DEMAND a REALLY good reason...and be prepared to call BS on that which is typically a BS "reason"......

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Reply #13 - Apr 10th, 2016 at 8:38am
 
Happy to report the melatonin seemed to help with sleep.

Jon019, youre right. Truly thank you for the kick in the ass.

He is allowed the o2 (or so we assume), but my husband is embarrassed by his CH (we all cope differently) and didn't want to be seen with it I think. I put down my nagging wife foot, and it is off to work with him. I very much want to get him a smaller tank for work, as this thing is a big one (M?) We are out of pocket on the o2, so we are thinking welding. Thank goodness we have a car, as we are in NYC and the subway with a non-rolling o2? Good luck.
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Reply #14 - Apr 10th, 2016 at 9:14am
 
No issues about the effectiveness of Oxygen but it's not the best abotive to use when you are lunging a tank in in public, work, etc.

For your husband, I assume the tank will also keep his embarrassment pumpumped up when he is out of your home.

Pill form abortives avoid these issues and given longer effective life and, as a group, offer longer effecive life.

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Reply #15 - Apr 14th, 2016 at 4:31am
 
Hi Can
Twelve mgs is a huge dose of imitrex, and personally I wouldn't feel comfortable taking it. If a doctor has prescribed it I guess it's Ok , but my auto injections are 6mg and the instructions are very clear - if you need a second shot do not take it within an hour of the first one.And no more than 2 (total 12mg) in 24 hours.

There are ways to make the injections last longer which helps not only to treat more attacks, but also spreads the cost or the amount your insurance company will allow.

On the very left of your screen is a blue tab - "imitrex tip".  That shows how to split a dose. I've done it many times and find that 3mg works equally as well as 6. So you can save half for later.

If you have the other kind of injectors - that look like a pen, they are harder to take apart so I asked my pharmacist for some syringes - the type diabetics use. I discharge the pen into the syringe and use half from there, and save half.
It does mean using the same needle twice, but as long as the needle doesn't come into any contact with anything else and the cap is put back on immediately it shoud stay clean enough to use again.

I also find "doing it myself" less traumatic than the auto injections.  Those things go off like a damned nail gun.  Doing it yourself doesn't hurt nearly as much and leaves a lot less bruising.

I'm lucky here in the Uk.  I can get a supply easily and for free on our NHS system.  If you have to pay for them, or have insurance issues, try to get a few when your husband is NOT in cycle. It helps to spread the cost and keeps you prepared for when the cycle starts. It doesn't matter if the remission is a long one - I've used them 6 months out of date and they still work fine.

Send me a PM if I can help more. And thank you for supporting your husband so well. I don't know what I would do without my hubby.  He knows I want to be left completely alone when I have an attack so he stays away, but he does a wonderful job of fending off all the other people who try to get me to lie down in a dark room, and bring me a couple of pills which " always works for them".
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Reply #16 - Apr 22nd, 2016 at 12:17pm
 
God Bless you for helping your husband.  Honestly, though , he needs to take control of his condition and get on here and read.  He will get great comfort from the community and understand of our condition.  Taking control is very important as this is  a LIFE LONG struggle.  Don't take no for an answer as Drs will love to say NO!  Read the info here and use it to get what he needs.  You are strong and have taken the first step, the rest is up to him.  God bless and many PF vibes for him and your family.  GL!
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Reply #17 - Apr 22nd, 2016 at 2:00pm
 
Hey Can,

Give us an update on how things are going.

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Reply #18 - Aug 16th, 2016 at 12:05pm
 
Just checking in, sorry I fell off the planet here for a time. Frankly once things start going well, I try not to think back or I collapse into despair.

Things have been going generally well overall, D3 regimen is still in force. Too early to tell if it is doing anything per se, my husbands cycles are more spaced out and unpredictable usually.

He had his first headache of significance, though not a CH, Sunday. Monday morning he woke up with intense vertigo that knocked him out most of the morning (did some epley maneuver which seemed to help), and now as he is healing up from that (less residual dizziness each day) he is also dealing with "normal" headache each day- as anything head related will set those off in general. He did not sleep well last night despite his normal 5 mg melatonin- he was out of bed by 4 am.

So here I am, feeling nerve-y! Upping D3 for a few days to 30,000 mg and at least 1 benadryl a day as well.
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Reply #19 - Aug 16th, 2016 at 1:47pm
 
Can,

Good to hear from you.

Can I suggest he takes the Benadryl last thing at night with 10 mg Melatonin to give the best chance of a good night's sleep.

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Reply #20 - Aug 23rd, 2016 at 2:43am
 
Cam:  I personally have had the best results taking a high dose of Verapamil during a cycle rather than Imitrex....and then O2 during a headache.  With the Verapamil I would sometimes go a night or two without a headache, which was such a welcome break...plus the headaches didn't seem quite as intense.  Just my personal input here.
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