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BarbaraD

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Sep 8^th, 2017 at 9:27am

Wednesday night my brother-in-law was killed in a car wreck. We aren't sure what happened but think he had a stroke or heart attack (he's had both) and just passed out and ran into a ditch.

We're all in shock.. it's sinking in slowly that he's gone. He was the baby of the family and half of a set of twins.

He was very artistic (I have paintings of his from high school and after hanging in my house and love them all).

He was sarcastically witty (don't think he ever said anything to me in 57 years that wasn't an insult - but I DID usually get EVEN.

)

We're all trying to cope with the loss - it will register before long, but right now .. it's tuff..

Remember the Henderson family in your prayers. Kiss

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pattik CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 2631 Wisconsin, USA Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #1 - Sep 8^th, 2017 at 10:40am Barbara...SO sorry to hear this news. Prayers to you and your family.
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LasVegas CH.com Sponsor Offline Episodic CH since 11 yrs old, now 50. Posts: 2020 north of the 60th parallel Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #2 - Sep 8^th, 2017 at 5:39pm Sorry for your family loss Barbara. Sudden death of family is always tough. Focusing on the good times helps get through it easiest, although never truly easy. Hugs and Prayers -Gregg
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Mike NZ CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Oxygen rocks! D3 too! Posts: 3785 Auckland, New Zealand Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #3 - Sep 8^th, 2017 at 7:37pm Exactly what Gregg said, losing family suddenly is tough. Good memories help, but there is still a loss that can't be filled.
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Batch CH.com Alumnus Offline Control The Beast With O2 & D3 You Must Posts: 3706 Bremerton, WA Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #4 - Sep 8^th, 2017 at 8:16pm Barbara, Sorry to hear of your loss... Max vibes and prayers heading to you in Douglassville... Hugs, Peter
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George CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Black-Billed Magpie Posts: 8126 Boise, Idaho USA Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #5 - Sep 9^th, 2017 at 1:25am I'm sorry for your loss, Barbara.
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Peter510 CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give out... But don't give in. Posts: 966 Wexford. Ireland Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #6 - Sep 9^th, 2017 at 11:36am Barbara, You're reallly going through it this last while. Lots of positive thoughts and prayers going to you from Ireland. Peter.
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Reply #8 - Sep 10^th, 2017 at 10:19am

Thanks guys... it's just dawning of all of us that he's gone. The funeral was yesterday, so the loss will begin setting in now.

Our little Chase (7 year old) was looking at people with his mouth open - "Granny are these ALL my cousins?" Yep, kiddo they are.

Then he wanted his mother to write all their names down so he could remember them.

There were only about 200 "family" members there.

But then to celebrate Royce's life - the VFW threw a party for the family. And that was perfectly fitting.

It was really a bittersweet day. Now hopefully things will go good the rest of the year.

Thanks again for the good vibes. Kiss

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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: Need a few good vibes... Reply #9 - Sep 10^th, 2017 at 8:17pm My condolences to all the family on your loss...
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