Posted by BD on May 15, 1999 at 15:08:36:
In Reply to: Re: Mom not doing good. posted by Margi on May 15, 1999 at 11:52:09:
I agree with Elaine. Don't ever NOT post what you think. One thing we've learned is that we all react differently to everything, so whatever you've got to say will probably help someone. And don't ever apologize for saying what you think. That's how we all learn something.
I know it's got to be hard on the supporter. I watched the helplessness in my mom and son's eyes and knew I couldn't explain what I was going through and didn't want to hurt them. I was afraid to be alone, yet I wanted to be "left" alone - does that make any sense? Hey, I had a CH, I didn't have to make sense!
Anyhow, stay with us and say anything you want to. We love you and think you're doing a terrific job of taking care of hubby. He's lucky to have you.
Hugs BD