Posted by Derek (204.210.20.12) on July 15, 1999 at 17:29:34:
In Reply to: Re: Almost Immediate Relief posted by hub on July 15, 1999 at 08:39:04:
No need to be skeptic...IT WORKED FOR HIM!! It worked for him for whatever reason in whatever way IT WORKED FOR HIM!! I only found this site two weeks ago or so and am growing increasingly tired of people who find it neccessary to put down or squash what somewhat else has said WORKED FOR THEM! We all know the mental games these HA's play with us and when we shut down, put down and discourage what someone thinks worked for them we set it up NOT to work for them!! I dont know how it has been in the past here but since I have been here the last two weeks I have seen people say they are leaving or dont feeled cared for here etc. There has been constant arguing and bickering over non-essential issues or because someone thinks they have the ONLY RIGHT ANSWER. I was discouraged to read another post from yesterday that our friend who didnt come here with an official CH diagnosis and all of the symptoms was blasted and now according to her post has left to seek other help. Even if they dont have CH pain or all of the symptoms etc. we should at least be polite and kind and caring. But then again like some people here I am beginning to see that there are many here who are not so concerned about caring and supporting one another but only about getting THEIR POINT ACROSS and LETTING EVERYONE KNOW THAT THEY HAVE THE ONLY RIGHT ANSWER. It is becoming increasingly hard to care and support for others in the midst of such rudeness and will only serve to drive the care and suppport to e-mail and then we all will not be able to benefit from messages and what a shame it is when that happens.
-Losing patience,Derek