Posted by Claudette (207.140.115.142) on July 22, 1999 at 14:36:08:
In Reply to: Re: The mule helped himself, so can you!! posted by Cathy on July 22, 1999 at 14:28:43:
Very good post. You cannot help someone who doesn't want to help themself. I had a neighbor come to me wanting "help". I tried to give her suggestions of things she could do, but her answer was always NO. I soon learned, she only wanted to complain, and for me to feel sorry for her. She didn't really want to get help. Come on Carl, take a step in the right direction.