Posted by Michelle C. (205.188.197.21) on August 20, 1999 at 23:19:18:
In Reply to: head banging posted by Pam on August 20, 1999 at 21:06:40:
I also pull my hair, rub my eyebrow and neck (HARD!) and generally writhe. For whatever reason, I like to have my husband's weight on me while writhing because the resistence he provides helps me feel more in control -- or is it controlled -- and I actually have something very tangible to fight against.
As I write this, I realize how WEIRD this must seem to people who haven't experienced those levels 8s, 9s and 10s. We do ANYTHING that even remotely seems to help.
Michelle