An Early Father's Day Message

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Posted by TerryS ( on June 08, 2000 at 22:39:35:

An Early Father's Day Message.

A friend at church sent this to me today. I thought it was rather
insightful. May have a message, or two in there somewhere . . . .

I was talking to my Dad about current events the other night. I asked him
what he thought about the shootings at schools, our immoral President, the
computer age and just things in general.

He replied: ..."Gee, let me think a minute.........I was born before
television, penicillin, polio shots, frozen foods, Xerox, contact lenses,
Frisbees and the Pill.

There weren't things like radar, credit cards, laser beams or ball-point pens.
Man had not invented pantyhose, dishwashers, clothes dryers, electric
blankets, air conditioners and he hadn't walked on the moon.

Your Mom and I got married first-then lived together. Every family had a
father and a mother, and every kid over 14 had a rifle that his dad taught
him how to use and respect.

Until I was 25, I called every man older than me 'sir'; and after I turned
25, I still called policemen and every man with a title, 'sir.' In our
time, closets were for clothes, not for 'coming out of.' Sunday's were set
aside for going to church as a family, helping those in need, and just
visiting with your neighbors.

We were before gay-rights, computer dating, dual careers, day-care centers,
and group therapy. Our lives were governed by the Ten Commandments, good
judgment and common sense.

We were taught to know the difference between right and wrong, and to stand
up and take responsibility for your actions. Serving your country was a
privilege, living here was a bigger privilege.

We thought fast food was what you ate during Lent. Having a meaningful
relationship meant getting along with your cousins. Draft dodgers were people
who closed their front doors when the evening breeze started. And time
sharing meant time the family spent together in the evenings and
weekends-not condominiums.

We never heard of FM radio, tape decks, CD's, electric typewriters,
artificial hearts, word processors, yogurt or guys wearing ear rings. We
listened to the 'big bands', Jack Benny and the President's speeches on the
radio. I don't ever remember any kid blowing his brains out listening to
Tommy Dorsey.

If you saw anything with 'Made in Japan' on it, it was junk. The term
'making out' referred to how you did on your school exam. Pizza's,
McDonald's and instant coffee were unheard of. We had 5 and 10 cent stores
where you could actually buy things for 5 and 10 cents. Ice cream cones,
phone calls, rides on a street car, and a Pepsi were all a nickel. And if
you didn't want to 'splurge,' you could spend your nickel on enough stamps
to mail a letter and two postcards.

You could buy a new Chevy Coupe for $600, but who could afford one. Too
bad, because gas was 11 cents a gallon. In my day 'grass' was mowed, 'coke'
was a cold drink, 'pot' was something your mother cooked in, and 'rock music'
was your grandmother's lullaby.

'Aids' were helpers in the Principal's office, a 'chip' meant a piece of
wood, 'hardware' was found in a hardware store and software wasn't even a

We were not before the difference between the sexes was discovered, but we
were surely before the sex change, 'Billy' having two mommy's, and
pornography in a family home and at newsstands. And we were the last
generation that was so dumb as to think you needed a husband to have a baby.

No wonder people today call us old and confused, and there is such a
generation gap. ..... and I'm only 53!!! ....did you dig that, Son?"

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