Posted by Darleen (198.103.221.3) on November 23, 2000 at 13:59:26:
In Reply to: NO Sleep posted by Dolores on November 23, 2000 at 09:54:02:
when he's not having a cluster what he wants you to do when he is in the midst of one. I know when my husband is having his attacks he doesn't want me talking to him, looking at him or anything. I just sit there not far from him and when he screams I jump and just wait until he asks for something. Please listen to Margi - if anyone knows, she does. I know you feel frustrated and that he's taking it out on you but you know it's probably because he loves you that he knows you know it's the cluster talking not him. I don't think you should take anything that he says while having his cluster personally because I'm sure he doesn't mean it. Please feel free to email me anytime at darleen.deveau@hrdc-drhc.gc.ca. We're here for you and him anytime you need.
Darleen