Posted by nancyc (205.188.193.172) on July 22, 2001 at 00:57:11:
In Reply to: What can spouses/partners do? posted by Andy on July 21, 2001 at 20:37:12:
all i can share is what i need from a supporter...when i get hit, please let me go into my own private hell, the bathroom, where i can pace, rock, and bang my head on the floor...where no one can see me suffer, where no one can see me cry...where i don't have to inflict my pain on the ones i love...let me suffer in silence. just be there for her...but give her space...the beast demands his space. We have to dance alone... You and your wife are in my prayers. smiles,nancyc