Posted by Kevin M (188.8.131.52) on August 10, 2001 at 11:52:30:
In Reply to: You wanna talk about whatever..... posted by Chris on August 10, 2001 at 10:06:56:
You might notice here, in between the lines of a lot of friendly conversation, that people here have lots of agony maintaining on a daily basis. It is very hard to accept more unfriendly things in our lives than we already have. Many times strong feelings come out about daily strugglings, but the anger is directed at the CH, not at others suffering with the same pain. For a moment, think, you are angry at people here with the same affliction which has garnered in you strong feelings. We don't wish any more suffering on any person needing this board. With so much we have to deal with on a daily basis regarding CH, it is hard to allow someone to post on this board negative feelings about those here without some response. And respond in defense of all here will happen. It's hard to expect different with an unfriendly approach.
It's very hard to be as good as the people are here, very hard with what is prevailant, but try and try hard people do on a daily basis.
You've found the right place to be with CH. Don't give up trying, there is help here, keep looking. Not all help can come right away, but it will come. If you feel unneeding of understanding, help, explainations of what is working, and really good friends, then this sight might not what you are looking for. Easy to click out if you wish, but it will be here for cluster sufferers when they do need it.
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