Posted by Marina (Riccardo's wife) (212.216.66.95) on September 01, 2001 at 14:45:13:
A friend of mine dead yesterday (she was 50, and got an aneurysm... just few minutes and she's gone)
What I want to say to you is: why we pick, hate, fight and write bad mails, harass ourself here? (and in our "real" life).
Life is so short, and can stop abruptly! If I say stupid to another one, and he/she will die next day, why have I to do these bad things? How can I manage this with my conscience?
We have to speak with the heart, more than with the mouth.
Let's limit us to post things to CH, or jokes, or Terry's like posts. All these will not give hate and fight.
An example: My friend is dead, I want to vent on the board for my pain... I come to the board, I see some hate, harrassing posts..... I CANNOT write anymore! I feel me a complete stranger in this place. And the same could happen with newbies in pain, and so on.
I don't want to give the start to other fights, battles, I never post here (I don't know English, Riccardo translate this for me) and I am sorry that my first post is so rough, but all is born talking with Riccardo about these things, and, meantime, I have known about my friend.
Ciao to all you, and kisses also from me
(is a family deviation...:-) )
Marina (Riccardo's wife)