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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« on: Dec 10th, 2002, 3:30pm » |
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #1 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 3:36pm » |
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You TOOK his meds???????
I'm with Jonny on this one.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #2 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 3:49pm » |
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I think you need to ask a higher power for forgiveness on that one.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #3 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 3:52pm » |
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Foregiveness? Not here! You’re lucky you’re not dead.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #4 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 3:58pm » |
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All I have to say is...
HOW DARE YOU!
If you were my partner.
You would eather be single or in the dog house untill sping or summer! Most likely single!
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
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« Reply #6 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:06pm » |
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That is kinda like unplugging the heart/lung machine in ICU.
That is pretty low and makes me think, you really don't know what having this is like, or that you think it is all bullshit.
I don't know you (I've been away for a while) and maybe I'm putting my foot in it, but, I'm with Jackie on this. I don't think you will find much forgiveness here.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #7 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:12pm » |
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cool post, Sherry.
Why anyone would even admit to this kind of cruelty is beyond me.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #8 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:14pm » |
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Cathy,
Check your email!
The more I think of this. The more I have to say
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« Reply #9 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:16pm » |
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Well cathy, I have to agree with that we here can grant you no forgiveness........I'm intelligent enough to understand that you are the supporter.......yet find it hard to believe that you would do something so cruel.
My family would NEVER intentionally take my meds from within my reach during one of my cycles.
If Wes has already forgiven you, you are ONE lucky woman....and my suggestion would be the ask for forgiveness yet again but this time to someone further up the ladder than us ch sufferers.
I would also suggest you please visit the supporters corner here and try and meet other supporters that could give you tips in the right direction.
Please convey my pf wishes to wes, and hope that you find it in your heart somewhere to learn what a good supporter should do.....and for beginners...NEVER do that again.
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« Reply #10 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:33pm » |
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Shee-it girl, there's fighting and fighting.
When you fight, you fight true, open visor, both have the same opportunity.
Still and all, you 'fessed up. I hope you now realize what you did, and won't do it again. I hope, I hope, I hope.
Go on, love him, even if he is a bother of a man...
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #11 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:56pm » |
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Cathy I had my meds taken away from me one time by someone. It was and still is very hard for me to trust that person to this day. I think its a very mean thing to do. One of the meanest. I am sure we can be hard to get along with when we are in pain, but doing that is not right.
I forgave the person that took my meds but I never trusted that person again.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #12 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 4:58pm » |
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Wow, I'm speechless. I'm not sure why you would admit to this cruelty here.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #13 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 5:04pm » |
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Cathy,
I'm not going to throw stones at you, IF you are truly repentant AND fully understand the gravity of your offense.
You physically abused (or tortured) a human being. Plain and simple. Do you fully understand this?
How much sympathy would a guy find if he confessed to a bunch of ladies that he beat up his wife? Said he felt really bad -- but hey, it sure is a great way to abort an argument! Just threaten to beat her up.
So, we're not the people you need to ask for forgiveness. You need to ask Wes for forgiveness. (Not just say "I'm sorry".)
Then ask God to forgive you -- if you believe in Him.
God is always willing to forgive those you truly repent.
Furthermore, if you EVER get tempted to "fight" in this manner again, I strongly suggest you get professional help.
Another incident like this and Wes would have just cause to get a retraining order put on you.
Praying for you both.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #14 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 6:56pm » |
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I am flabbergasted!!! I can't believe you did that! You must have been really pissed off? But still You must have really really hated him at that moment? But still I'm telling you, if someone ever did that to me, they would be out the door so damn fast. How can you say you love Wes and do something like this? It blows my mind. I'm just..just flabbergasted!!!
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #15 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 6:57pm » |
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Cathy,
That was just plain wrong on so many levels..Wes must be a helluva guy to forgive ya for that whopper. I have to admit..that if my hubby did that to me..he would be out on his med stealin ass..and not be let back in..ever. You broke a trust..a special trust that a sufferer & supporter share..and it may take a while to rebuild..if ever.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #16 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 7:21pm » |
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When my brother Jason was dying from cancer we had a blazing row while I was taking him in to get his chemo ( I mean of the fiery kind....get it blazing, fiery........oh well, no matter) and I commit the ulitimate crime, and I mean ULTIMATE cancerville sin..
(hell, we all make mistakes.. )
I, yes me, after slamming out of the car (I'd probably have been shoved out anyway....) snuck into his doctor's office and found the chemo they were going to hook him up with and changed it for just a saline solution....... I did however, before I left, shout back at him ....not to shout at me cause it might make the lung cancer kill him.......but to smoke a cigarette may help...  .. did he listen NO...do they ever ??
So meds switched on him, in a temper I left.
Later that night............(on arriving home a few hours later....)
"Hi Jason, are you ok??" Well lets just say he didn't greet me with a LOL ;D ;D
He'd had quite (and I use the term lightly) a BAD night, in fact, he looked like a bag of shit!!
I now feel really bad and want to repent my sin.... 
For his remaining days if he thought a blazing row is on the cards I get flowers, chocs and cigarettes....Therefore I have made a startling discovery which I feel I should share.....Meds may not cure cancer but f**k they're good for aborting arguments......LOL ;D ;D ;D
Sorry.....LOLLOL (no, really Im sorry)
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Cathy, I just changed a few words so you can see this little prank that you even were snickering and laughing about in this post was a pretty cruel one.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #17 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 7:26pm » |
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Cathy,
Next time you fight just walk out the door, curse him, throw things, but dont take the meds. 
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #18 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 7:33pm » |
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Sorry, gotta go out on a limb here .... been there done that, yadadada. I've seen it all in my day. And if Cathy could get her hubby to stop, look, and listen, save the relationship between them.... Well, one night without meds will not kill a clusterhead. Might kill a cancer patient, might kill any other human dying from another dreaded disease, but remember folks ... we are clusterheads ... WE DON'T DIE FROM THIS SHIT ... WE LIVE IN AGONY !!!! It'll make him mighty unconfortable, but never kill him. A month without a true supporter just might. Just my humble opinion. Please send any violent responses to my personal email address. I have put on my flame retardent suit. Love you all, but I do have my own opinion !!!!
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« Reply #19 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 7:53pm » |
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Damn how shity sorry just my opinion ! 
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #20 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 7:58pm » |
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I'd jus leave the meds where there at if "that" pissed off 'n jus 'shoot' at him 'an miss.........shame shame......live 'n learn tho I always say.............
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #21 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 8:00pm » |
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I don't think anyone said it would kill him, Nancy. There are cruel things that happen that don't include murder though.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #22 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 9:23pm » |
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Nancy, it's not just the fact that the action was cruel... it's kinda like: Why would someone even mention that here? ??? ??? ??? ???. That's kinda like killing the baby elephant in front of it's mother. Confessions are why god was made. Exactly what purpose will that serve here??? Plus, the post was 'too cute'. If there are personal problems, take care of them, but don't kill the baby elephant in front of it's mother. Sheesh. If that happened to me, we would probably be throwin down right then and there. I can't even believe that someone would post that here ??? ??? ??? ???
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
« Reply #23 on: Dec 10th, 2002, 9:48pm » |
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Perhaps my response is generated from the fact that my husband is not doing well. His chemo treatments have not been working so far. Even if they were working, we would face another 36 weeks of the hell we have already been through. Perhaps, that makes me more compasionate to the mistakes people make in their lives. Perhaps, it makes me read the posts and take a good look at what the person was really trying to say. Perhaps I am just full of shit. The one thing I do know for sure, and said before is, cluster headaches will never kill us. With or without meds. Done both am I am still here.
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Re: Confessions (I need forgiveness)
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