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Annette

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Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Jun 19^th, 2008 at 5:27pm

Daniel passed away 18/06/2008.

The suboccipital and GLOA combined injections were a success. His CH cycle stopped completely 2 weeks after 2 injections. Total length of last cycle was only 5 weeks, compared to 8 months 2 years ago.

However, he plunged into a very dark deep depression cycle of his bipolar and could not come out, despite a week stay in hospital last week. On 18/06/08 he left the house at night while I was sleeping, took an overdose of his antidepressant. The alarm was raised within an hour of him leaving the house but he did not want to be found. He went into hiding. The police found him the next morning, passed away.

I am hurting like hell now but its time to say goodbye.

Take care all, thank you for everything and God bless.

If you can, please pray for all of us.

Annette

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cash5542 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 1243 x1\|Ocean Pines\|USA\|usa\|498\|141\|MD,Maryland Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #1 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 5:34pm Oh Annette, I am sooo very sorry. I just can't come up with the words to comfort you and your children. You are in my prayers. Please do not lose touch with us. Charlotte
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gizmo CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Posts: 522 Germany Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #2 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 5:36pm Don't know what to say... I'm praying for you.
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Jonny Ex Member	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #3 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 5:41pm OMG, I am so sorry, Annette! Please dont lose touch with us.
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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #5 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 5:46pm

OH Annette my dear dear friend

I am speachless by this terrible news. Cry

I just dont know what to say my friend Cry

You and your family have my deepest sympathy and condolences. Cry

Please contact me when you feel you are ready for it,but please do not leave us here alone.Now its the time for us to show you your true and real friends.

i just dont know what more to say Annette

I will be praying for you and your family

The very best from Svenn

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Mrs Deej YaBB Administrator Offline My life is what I make it, and it's beautiful! Posts: 1348 Tornado Alley Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #6 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 5:51pm From the bottom of my heart, I am so sorry. I wish you were closer ad there were something we could do. I don't have the words for you, but my prayers have centerd round you and your children. May God be with you in your mind and soul. We love you so much!
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Reply #7 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:04pm

Oh Annette, I am heartbroken for your loss. Pleas know that from the depths of my being I am reaching in and sending you all of my love and condolences.

Daniel suffered so very much on so many levels. It is so tragic that his life has ended but now he has found some peace. You were and are a wonderful person and a tremendous friend and supporter. Your children are especially in my prayers during this very sad time.

with warm regards,
Tony

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Mastifflvr28 CH.com Alumnus Offline clusterbusters.com Posts: 3624 Bellingham, WA Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #8 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:10pm My deepest condolences and sympathies to your family Mast
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purpleydog CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 2732	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #9 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:15pm Annette, I don't know what to say. I am so very sorry to hear about Daniel. Please accept my deepest condolences. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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jimmers Ex Member	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #10 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:17pm We don't have the words Jim and Barb
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barry_sword CH.com Alumnus Offline Mountain Biking Keeps Me Sane Posts: 3947 Bracebridge, Canada Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #11 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:23pm OMG Annette! We are so deeply sorry. Please, PLEASE stay here with us. Our deepest condolences to you and the children. Barry&Angie
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Annette

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Reply #12 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:25pm

Thank you everyone for your kind words, they mean a lot to me.

Daniel is at peace now and is with God. No more pain, no more struggle. I am happy for him that way. But I cant help missing him so much. Today is the first morning waking up without him in my world. The pain is indescribable.

I am struggling to pick up the pieces left behind and I am so scared of the lonely days and nights ahead. I really dont know how I am going to live without him.

Please pray for me to have the strength to carry on for our two boys.

Thank you .

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Reply #13 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:30pm

Oh Annette,

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. Cry

The only condolence is that Daniel is finally at peace from his suffering, however it still doesn't make it easier for those who remain behind. You and your children are in my prayers, and will be for a long time - but especially so in these next days and weeks as you mourn the loss of Daniel and have to live on your life without him.

I wish there was more we could do. But definitely don't disappear now - I'm sure you will find much support here.

Hang in there.

Much love and hugs,
Carrie

~~"Don't know much about your life. Don't know much about your world, but Don't wanna be alone tonight on this planet they call Earth."~~

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Reply #15 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:42pm

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I am struggling to pick up the pieces left behind and I am so scared of the lonely days and nights ahead. I really dont know how I am going to live without him.

Annette, You are not living without him. He is and always will be with you and the boys. He does not want you to be in pain. Try to understand that the choice that he made was because he thought it was his last option. I know that logically you know this, but emotionally it is going to be harder then anything to feel like you are doing anything more then going thru the motions. This family is not here just for those of us who get CH. We are here for everyone who is effected by those HA, and you are a prime example of that. If you feel that you need to step away from the board, I understand, but I hope that you know that at any time, you can come here to talk, cry, laugh or scream. You and the boys are all part of clusterville, and I know from experience that everyone here will give you whatever it is that you need. A shoulder, a hug, a sounding board, whatever. They have saved my life, and my marriage a few times as well.

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KJ CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 596 Indianapolis, IN Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #17 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 6:47pm Quote: Please pray for me to have the strength to carry on for our two boys. Praying with all my heart. You are one of the strongest people I know, anyway....keep the faith. Love you, KJ
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Reply #19 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 7:10pm

Shocking and sad, I'm so sorry for you and your children. Depression is a terrible disease. It is like an infection or cancer - sometimes, people recover, other times, nothing helps. Time to grieve, and time to treasure and celebrate the times you had with Daniel. I know that the amount of help you have provided to us was great, and that you gave even more support to Daniel.

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Kirk CH.com Alumnus Offline VINIMUS, VIDIMUS, DOLAVIMUS Posts: 2393 Harts Lake, WA Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #23 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 8:09pm I am very sorry to here of this happening to you and yours' Annette. May the tide rise with you, as you begin your trip through the rest of your life. Farewell.
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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #24 - Jun 19^th, 2008 at 8:13pm

Annette,

I'm so sorry to hear you've been bravely dealing with private turmoil in your family with Daniel this past week. I know you were desperately trying to win this battle with him. This terribly touching resolve is deeply, deeply saddening.
Tears flow unstoppable for loved ones beyond, take your time with your boys together in weakness of heart.

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