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A 5 year old needs some help
Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:17am
 
What is it with us and rare diseases?

I normally don't go off topic with this sort of plea and I'm sorry, but we're getting a bit desperate.

My brother's grandson, Jacob has been diagnosed with Monosomy 7 and Shwachman-Diamond disease.

I'd never heard of them either so I'm posting some basic information on them.

The reason I'm posting here is because we need help. Jacob needs a bone marrow transplant and he needs it this year. As you'll read below, one of the things this causes is Leukemia. He is already 85% of the way there and if he doesn't get the transplant before he's in full blown Leukemia (months away) his chances of survival go way down. The best information we have (statistically) is a paper that showed prognosis being much worse for patients with monosomy 7 who had progression to leukemia vs. patients that had the transplant before the monosomy 7 turned into leukemia. 

In the study there was a small number or patients but the prognosis for being alive was 70% if a transplant was performed before progressing to full leukemia vs 25-40% if they did not have a transplant before progressing to leukemia.

DEFINITIONS
Monosomy 7: A rare chromosomal disorder where there is one copy of the genetic material in chromosome 7 rather than the normal two. The deletion of this chromosome if often associated with myelodysplastic syndromes and myeloid leukemia. The condition usually has a poor prognosis. Other defects may also be present in some cases.

Shwachman-Diamond Syndrome (SDS) is a rare genetic disorder that occurs in approximately one in 50,000 births. SDS affects many organs in the body and the symptoms may vary from individual to individual. The primary features of SDS include: bone marrow problems (leading to inadequate production of some types of white blood cells), a defect in the pancreas (leading to difficulties in digesting food), skeletal abnormalities, and short stature.

He will be in a special isolation unit for 3-6 months through the chemo & transplant.. how he body accepts the transplant largely determines his chance for survival. There are chances for infection, rejection, etc...

Here is the next hurdle. We can not find a suitable donor. They talk about matching 6 or 7 out of a possible 8 characteristics as the measure.. best is 8 of 8.
The best match on the national registry is a 4. The doctors really do not want to use this distant of a match.
All the family has been or is being tested. Nothing yet.

How you might be able to help. And yes, I know its a big deal and not something that is decided upon or done easily. Maybe you know someone that might be willing to do this.
Visit the International Donor Registry to sign up to donate blood cells. The test is painless and free. If you are lucky enough to match a sick child - you could save a life.

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What I think is really wrong (besides everythng else) is that there is sometimes a cost associated with joining the registry. Its like a computer generated lottery. Some people that have joined, do so at no cost. Others, get asked to pay. I was asked for $55.00
The explanation for this:
"A: The total cost to add a new member to the Be The Match Registry is about $100. This includes the cost of the testing needed to match donors to searching patients and related costs.
Be The Match relies on financial contributions to help cover the costs of adding members to the registry. Others have contributed toward the costs for you to join today. However, there are not always enough funds to cover the numbers of donors needed, so sometimes new members are asked to pay some of the registration costs when they join.
Your contribution will make it possible for more people like you to join in the future."

Sounds like more people with a rare disease having to fund their own research/developement/treatmets. It's just not right. They ask you to be tested to become a donor, and then want to charge you for it?? WTF?? I just didn't want people going there and completing the forms and then getting slapped with this in the end. if you do this, maybe you;ll get lucky and it'll be free.

The test is simple. They send you a package with a few cotton swabs. You swab your mouth and send it in for a DNA match. (you felons out there might want to skip this Wink
They run their tests and add you to the list.

On another sad note, they need to run the tests when she's old enough, but his little sister Isabella (pictured) may also have this disease.

I understand this is something huge that I'm asking but if there happens to be one or two people out there willing to do this, you just might be a match to save a child.

If not, I understand completely and prayers are appreciated.

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thanks very much,
Bobw
One way or the other, I'll keep you all posted.
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Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Reply #1 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:34am
 
Oh my, I do not know what to say, I hope with all my heart that  a match is found.

My Husband is on the register here, and has come close to being used once or twice.

Lots of love and light to you , your brothers beautiful grandchildren and the whole family.

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Reply #2 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:48am
 
Dayum, Bob!  My heart goes out to you and your family!

I had tried to get on the registry for one other clusterhead family member, but I was refused, due to my heart history.  I wish I could get on the list.

I hope, with all my heart, that a donor is found quickly.  Children that are sick, breaks me up, especially one with as serious a condition as you describe!

Prayers being sent up in his, and his sister's  name.

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Reply #3 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 6:28am
 
I too can't be on the register any more due to my health problems and I can't give blood anymore either. That hurts, I really would love to be able to do both.

Good luck with finding a donor Bob, keep us updated won't you?

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Reply #4 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 12:05pm
 
What a wonderful pic Bob, it breaks my heart what they and your family are going through. Unable to donate but you got my prayers and thoughts...

BTW...there is a fellow here at work who is on that donor registry. His marrow has been used and it has saved a child...he just beams when he talks about it
and says it's the best thing he ever did in his life...AND IT WAS SO EASY!

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Reply #5 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:07pm
 
I'm so sorry, Bob.  This is heartbreaking.  Such beautiful children.

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

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Reply #6 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:41pm
 
I will receive my swabbs in about a week Bob, if I'm a match to Jacob or anyone in need, I'm officially available. For the record, it cost me nothing to do it.

Thanks for giving me the opportunity to help Jacob today. He's in our prayers, make sure you let him know where thinking of him my friend.

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Reply #7 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:47pm
 
One last note, please don't take this the out of context. However, could we set up a donor page for him on face book with that link?

There are 250 million people on Facebook, not to mention Twitter, you never know is what I'm saying. There are lots of selfless people in the world, all we are looking for is one Smiley

Its just a thought, I would really like to see this turn out good, and I wouldn't want to leave any stone unturned.
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Reply #8 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:48pm
 
Done.

It came out to $0 for me, but I made a donation anyway.

A total of $0, plus any gift entered above will be charged to your credit card. This tax-deductible payment helps cover donor registration costs, creating the opportunity for more people to join the registry. (If the amount shown is zero and you are not making a financial contribution, you do not need to enter credit card information.)
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Reply #9 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 6:49pm
 
Oh my goodness, Bob, everything I've got is going out for Jacob. I like Sean's facebook idea.
Unfortunately, I was soundly rejected for marrow donation.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Reply #10 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 7:00pm
 
Prayers and vibes coming your way.

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Reply #11 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 8:21pm
 
I take anti-inflamnatory meds frequently and therefore did not qualify. That sucks.
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Reply #12 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 8:30pm
 
Beats me why epilepsy would be a hindrance to this but they say it is if seizures aren't under control. It makes no sense to me though.

All my prayers and thoughts to you and those beautiful children.

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Reply #13 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 9:23pm
 
Very sorry for the news Bob.  I would join if I could but you have to be a U.S citizen. If there is anyway to find out if I am a match let me know and I'm there.

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Reply #14 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 9:29pm
 
All our thoughts and prayers for Jacob. Beat this! Smiley
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Reply #15 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 9:49pm
 
ok just to let my fellow canucks know, There is a Canadian "OneMatch" Site. Through the Canadian Red Cross. It's free as well!

Thank you for joining OneMatch!

Thank you for submitting your request to join the OneMatch Stem Cell and Marrow Network. You will be contacted by OneMatch within 8-10 working days to discuss your eligibility to receive a buccal swab kit and proceed with your enrolment. Smiley Smiley Smiley

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Reply #16 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 11:07pm
 
I'm sorry, but I can't either.  Would if I could!

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Edit to add:  They'll take my organs when I'm dead, but won't even take my blood while alive.
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Reply #17 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 11:15pm
 
Thank you all VERY much. It means a lot to me, as you can imagine. It's tough for all of us to even talk about it. It wasn't easy to even post about it.

Thanks very much to everyone signing up or trying to sign up. They wouldn't take ME because of my heart attack. Had I known, I would have lied.
BTW, they tell us that they are finding a lot of matches for people in the US, from Europe. Maybe its an ancestral thing.

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Reply #18 - Aug 26th, 2009 at 11:15pm
 
Yep.....two strikes against me.  Old age and cancer.

But I see that it has spread throughout facebook.

Good luck Bob.

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Reply #19 - Aug 27th, 2009 at 12:44am
 
Such beautiful children...they shouldn't have to suffer this way.  I'm sending this to everyone I know.

Praying a match is found soon.

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What is it with us and rare diseases?


Bob, I can totally agree with the above statement. My sister recently lost her new born girl to a condition called Edwards syndrome or Trisomy 18.

Unfortunately I am unable to help personally, I have sent your plea on to many family and friends and directed them to pass it on to their contacts. I really hope and pray that the kids are successful in securing the donor they need.

God Bless..!


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Reply #21 - Aug 27th, 2009 at 8:19am
 
Bob,
If you or a family member could, set the little one up an account/page on Caringbridge.

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I don't have a face book account, but I will forward the info to my sis-in-law who belongs to a huge church.

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Reply #22 - Aug 27th, 2009 at 9:22am
 
I signed up and am awaiting my marrow donor match testing kit in the mail.  I haven't been giving blood for the last year - since I've been poked and prodded on many tests for CH.   Tongue  My guinea pig days have been over for a little while, and I am glad I will have the opportunity to try to help here.
I am also passing on the word to those I know - both in person and on the web.    Wink  Don't forget word of mouth people just because the web is easier!!!
I am sorry little Jacob (and you and your family) are going through this, and am keeping you all in my thoughts Bob. Smiley  I hope they find someone Very soon!!!   

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Reply #23 - Aug 27th, 2009 at 10:24am
 
Very sorry to hear about this Bob. I did try to register but I was declined. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Reply #24 - Aug 27th, 2009 at 11:14am
 
5 years old! I can't fathom! And such beautiful children, too!
Bob, I'll call today. I admit to being a chicken, but if I can donate blood...well...........it's sure worth a try, isn't it?
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