Well said Barbara.

I probably shouldn't have even replied in here so I am done with this topic.   Ill have my last say and read all replies so they have last say.

Our Facebook group isn't secret.  We are private because many things discussed people don't want friends, family, or bosses to read.  We are protective of trolls,snake oil salesmen, and such.  Like this message board, where I got started in meeting CHers and receiving support, it just ain't easy administrating a large group, especially one with chronic pain.  DJ and Steph are hero's of mine for what they have done for the CH community and I am forever grateful.  Some people just are going to not like whatever you do.  So Hoppy, I'm sorry your experience wasn't good but honestly, you joined for one purpose, to gain members of your group.  You were told how you could do that by becoming an active member and making relationships.  That wasn't good for you and you left.   I am glad you are here and have the support you need.  I wish you the best in your endeavors.

And people wonder why I don't do Facebook.