Posted by Ted (220.127.116.11) on September 29, 1999 at 22:24:09:
In Reply to: Words from the Wisdom. posted by Denise/Bryan on September 29, 1999 at 12:44:29:
I'm taking it the pain beat you not because you suffer from CHs but because he suffers from CHs. Jesus. From what you write, I'd love to find someone like you. So far I've been told, after enough time of getting comfort from these people before they could no longer deal with it anymore, by the following people to leave them alone and not disturb them for comfort, let alone general support, when it comes down to these:
Father (Who used to get them and knows what they really are)
Girlfriends over the past 16 years
Now, I don't usually ask for anything in life from anyone. So it's not a matter of being a needy person getting on their nerves. But it's apparently very hard to watch a loved one go through these, or beg for death from time to time. So, the fact that you are there for him as such, and talking to us asking for support for him rather than you, shows me that you are a very special person and if we can support you somehow, please let us know.
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