Posted by Bernadette (204.115.229.49) on October 14, 1999 at 14:51:58:
In Reply to: CARL D drummer and anyone else that pity`s............ posted by Linda B on October 14, 1999 at 12:48:52:
Linda,
In some ways I can understand what you are talking about but also I understand what it means to have someone show you attention. Maybe where Carl is he isn't quite getting the proper attention that he needs and by coming to the CH board it gives him somewhat of a comfort to know that the people here really care about him. Not once when reading his post did I feel like he was wining (I spelled it wrong) I felt as though he was reaching out. As far as Drummer goes well if you can't get used to Drummer by now then you never will. I have in the past spoken to him on the phone and he is exactly like he is on the phone as he is on the board so either you can love him or leave him. Although he does swear alot, that's just his personality but deep down when I really needed him he reached out to me and was very comforting. We all must remember that we all have very different personalities, we can't all be the same. Some of us are stronger than other, some weaker but it is our job as the strong ones to really try to look inside the person and see exactly what it is that they are looking for, most of the time you will find that they are looking for love, unconditinally. Linda, I just hope you are having a bad because I have heard so many nice things about you. I'm sorry you feel that way and I pray that things will get better for you. I also want you to know that I care for you regardless. God Bless You.
Love,
Bernie