Posted by Glenda (24.28.249.122) on April 05, 2001 at 11:28:20:
In Reply to: Self appointed judges judge, and who gives a frickin' Blah posted by Carl D on April 05, 2001 at 00:01:12:
it is VERY SAD that we all can't come together here
and be supportive of each other without being judgemental.
There is NO WAY we can judge someone else until we
have walked in their shoes for an extended period
of time.
We see a lot of this same behavior in children....
come on, we are grown adults here. We all come to
this MB for the purpose of support and understanding,
do we not?
I, myself, didn't come here to be judged. I came here
here for understanding and to be able to relate
to people that are afflicted with the same pain
that I experience.
I really don't see the reason/purpose behind a lot
of the bickering that goes on here on the MB.
How does it help anyone, it only ends up hurting
someones feelings. I know that anytime you have
a forum like this you are going to have some
conflicts in personalities, but let's deal with it
like adults, and not say hurtful things to each
other. Just because we don't understand or can't
comprehend where the other person is coming from
in relation to their experiences. Everyone handles
and deals with things differently.
Some people in this world just aren't happy or
satisfied unless there is a lot of turmoil and
bickering going on.
I agree totally with, "Take what you need, and
leave the rest."
Do we really want sufferers that come here for the
first time for support and information to see this.
How can we really expect the public to take us
seriously when they see this.
I may have made some people mad here, and I'm sorry
if I did, but we really need to think about this.