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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #25 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:07pm » |
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #26 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:07pm » |
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on Dec 10th, 2004, 3:02pm, marlin wrote:
That pursuit required a lot of effort, gifts, promises... The problem is these women all seem to think that was going to last forever. Guys eventually get tired of continuing to pursue. |
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Then again, there are the guys in which the pursuit is the real challenge; getting what you want, then losing interest
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #27 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:08pm » |
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on Dec 10th, 2004, 2:46pm, nani wrote:
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nan honey, you like the obnoxious player marlin better? He's been out of commission for 20 years now. The present day, slightly greying marlin still gets the occasional unsolicited interested woman pawing his leg but has the common sense to kindly walk away. Sorry to disappoint you.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #28 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:11pm » |
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on Dec 10th, 2004, 3:02pm, marlin wrote:
Look john, since Frank's been married for 10+ years (I think) I figure his response cariies a little more weight.
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Not going there bud, I happen to respect Frank's opinion because of his past posts so you are needlessly defending him. But I respect my opinion as well, but I do take it with a grain of salt. Why don't you go umpire a mud-wrestling contest somewhere if you want to break up a non-existent fight?
Frankly, what you said and what I said are apples and oranges. I was talking about initial attraction.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #29 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:12pm » |
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"men get more attracted the more they have to chase.
Speak only for yourself.
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I'm with Bill and Frank on this one, as soon as I sense there some of that going on... bye bye It's dangerous and stupid.
anyway what the f do we want?
Harmony, affection, simplicity, synergy, understanding, tolerance, space... you know, not much. 
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #30 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:17pm » |
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Finally an answer:
Thank you Paul..
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"men get more attracted the more they have to chase.
Speak only for yourself.
Bill "
I'm with Bill and Frank on this one, as soon as I sense there some of that going on... bye bye It's dangerous and stupid.
anyway what the f do we want?
Harmony, affection, simplicity, synergy, understanding, tolerance, space... you know, not much.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #31 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:17pm » |
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LOL.... I have no patience for princesses, either.
It might be "Battle Of The Sexes," and the "attraction game," but after the relationship has begun, then all of that crap goes out the window in favor of, "Us, We, Together, Team, Family." Being in love is like having a baby: Both the mother and father compromise a little, sacrifice a little, and learn how to bend a little so that the baby will survive and thrive and grow. When one or both parties decide that the compromise, effort, and sacrifice isn't worth it, then that baby begins to die.
Linda, I don't know your exact situation, but like I said, you don't have to put up with that crap. Very best wishes to you. Never sell yourself short. There's nothing wrong with you, Dear. 
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« Reply #32 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:31pm » |
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i'm really sorry you are having rough-time Linda, I wish the best for you.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #33 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:33pm » |
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All I want is for my wife to love me and trust me.
I don't expect her to understand me. I don't even understand me.
I don't want her to think that I understand her. She's even more complicated than I am.
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Hell no!! It's just the typical thing that happens to most men 99% of the time they are awake. Physical attraction is all it is. I think some of the girls in the picture of the day for the guys thread are awesome. I wouldn't touch them though if they walked up and sat in my lap. Someone else said it good. 'Eye Candy'.
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Absolutely not!!! This would cause a never ending argument that I don't want to get into. My wife would assume that I have already, or am planning to act on those fantasies.
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I took a 15K pay cut from my last job because my wife didn't like the amount of time I spent there and commuting there and back. nuff said on that.
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I think an Adam Sadler song song says it best. I wish I remembered all of the lyrics. I actually learned it before and serenaded my wife with it. It's at the end of 'The Wedding Singer'. It's called 'I Wanna Grow Old With You.'.
All I want to do is grow old with the ONE woman that I fell in love with and watch my little one grow up. Later on, we retire and live in an RV in camp grounds around America untill we finally go to our permanent rest.
Added after the fact: I would also like for my wife to understand that if I don't feel like it (you know what) or I'm to tired to do it, It doesn't mean that I don't love her or that I had someone else earlier today. It simply means that I don't really feel like it or I'm to tired. This does actually happen some times girls.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #34 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:34pm » |
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S orry.
Thank you all for your responses.
Not that I have an idea of what the F...you want in a woman... But your entries have reall y started me thinking. I need to leave this area. soon!!!!!!!!
Love all you a lot. Linda
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #35 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:39pm » |
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What the F.. do men want?
one more attempt...
To become one half of a two person organism...
yes, I spelled it right.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #36 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:40pm » |
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on Dec 10th, 2004, 3:34pm, Linda_Howell wrote:
S orry.
Thank you all for your responses.
Not that I have an idea of what the F...you want in a woman... But your entries have reall y started me thinking. I need to leave this area. soon!!!!!!!!
Love all you a lot. Linda |
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damn Linda, I hope you are ok. Whatever you do , please take good care of yourself.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #37 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:43pm » |
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on Dec 10th, 2004, 3:26pm, Linda_Howell wrote:oh Jesus H....C.
I must have something Very wrong with me.
This man that I choose to live my life with has a problem with me.
He doesn't like it that I cuss and swear....MF-er-
He don't like me at all as a matter of fact.
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So, when did you start to swear? Was it recent? I doubt it so it sounds unreasonable for him to expect a different woman than the one he committed to out the gate. Probably something else.
Caution - If he says he doesn't like you I'm afraid there's little hope of putting humpty dumpty together.
But.... One reason I rarely take sides in a relationship dispute is there are always 2 sides. He may have a legit gripe?? Can you think of one? Are you real tough on him with unrealistic expectations? Anything you can think of? Of course as I said earlier, more than 2X off the field and, well... you need to look for scouting reports to revamp your 2 person team.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #38 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 3:46pm » |
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Hey, Exploding eyeball..........
This is exactly what I was hoping for when I posted this.
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All I want to do is grow old with the ONE woman that I fell in love with and watch my little one grow up. Later on, we retire and live in an RV in camp grounds around America untill we finally go to our permanent rest.
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Thank you so much. I would love you even if I didn't know you.
You MEN????
Take a page out of his book.
Sorry again, I am in so much agony right now.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #40 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 4:23pm » |
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Hang in there Linda.
Let's hope the agony is only a temporary thing.
We go through the 'You don't love me... Yes I do, whether you like it or not!!!' phase at least once a year.
I hate fighting but it happens some times and it always hurts and makes me feel like I'm the problem.
There are so many other things I'd like to tell you but when I try to type it out the words just don't look right.
Juist be tough and hang in there if you can.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #41 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 4:23pm » |
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He he he he ! Yeah right!
Thanks to all of you. Really.
You made my day a little brighter.
Linda
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #42 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 4:40pm » |
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Here's how Adam Sandler said it.
This is what I want.
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I wanna make you smile,
whenever you're sad.
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad.
Oh, all i wanna do, is grow old with you.
I'll get your medicine when your tummy aches,
Build you a fire if the furnace breaks.
Oh, it could be so nice, growin' old with you.
I'll miss you, kiss you,
Give you my coat when you are cold,
need you, feed you.
I'll even let you hold the remote control.
So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink,
put you to bed when you've had too much to drink.
Oh I could be the man who grows old with you.
I wanna grow old with you...
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #43 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 5:01pm » |
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on Dec 10th, 2004, 4:55pm, Linda_Howell wrote:
Why is it such a hard thing to be a couple?
Why does it have to be sarcasm, fighting, and arguments?
Why? why can't we just all get along for Gods sake?
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Damn. I wish I knew the answer to those questions.
I know that when we start having problems, I try to step back and take a look at myself and usually see that I'm acting like a big self centered baby.
On that note... Have a nice weekend. It's time for me to go home so I can go Christmas shopping with my wife.
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #44 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 5:17pm » |
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man is like this .... 1
Woman is more like this as i see it.. 001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100 001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100 001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100 001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100001101100
Does this help? Now at least IF I am really lucky you might have a smile?? mac
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #45 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 5:36pm » |
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hmmm.
So what you're saying is that women are really complicated?
O.K. Got ya.
That must be my problem. I speak in tongues.
Makes me fel so much better now that I understand it all.
Linda
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #46 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 5:39pm » |
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Read your PM's kiddo.
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wow. I don't know what to say to all of this. I am kind of in the same boat. Taking precautionary steps right now. I need to make sure my child will grow from a good little boy to a great man and I don't think this will happen if I stay in the situation I am in now. I understand completely what you are saying. I have been watching this thread all day and I am still trying to figure out what to say - just know you are not alone in this struggle.
Hugs to you!
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #48 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 5:50pm » |
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I have no idea what started this string or what it is all about.
So I'll just say, Hey Linda
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Re: What the F.. do men want?
« Reply #49 on: Dec 10th, 2004, 6:16pm » |
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Yeah I think women are complicated.. If it was just guy's, we'ld still be livin in caves wearin grass skirts, or maybe a hide of some sort with no stitching. When it rained we would smear on grease, and thats about it.
But oh noooo.. Woman comes twitching along, and thats sorta interestin'
Guys watch that walk, but we pray to never get caught out right, and thats even if we are single!
Now me I got lucky some how the 2nd time around and it seems I can't do anything wrong.. She don't go shoppin much and when she does it is practical stuff we really can use..
I maintain every thing we own, and much comes from the dump.. I prefer Queen Anne furnishings to what i find at walley world and in the NH dump you can get Queen Anne clones of the 1920's or so, and Hitchcock chairs and the like. Oh sure they need a new coat of milk paint and or varnish, but I can do that stuff.
My 81 Yammi motor bike came from the bone yard, right off the pile of cars.. I asked her about getting it and she said "Do it!" with a smile knowing full well I would restore it to better than new... What she didn't know was i would do lots of that right in the kitchen sink, and after a few years of riding on it with her, restore the paint to what it is today in our shower...
I do have 2 minor problems with her however. I like hunting and target shooting, and as of late had a few extra bucks to get a few guns, and if I let her try them out she tends to claim them. Women are known for not sharing so well, and I am not about to push the issue with a armed woman! So I have to get another gun if I want to shoot what ever type I wanted.. I find this gets expensive ...
The 2nd problem is I also do Buck Skinning as a hobby life style and added to that French and Indian War battle re-enactments..
Both of these hobbies require a tomahawk, and that is a axe like camp tool.. We throw them at blocks for points in competition. So this tool needs a tight handle to use it. Well water swells wood and so I discovered that being forced to leave the "lid up" that this makes a dandy swelling tank..
Now I bet you can see where we come into conflict if I forget that hawk is soaking.. I sure hope so as i don't think this Yankee lad can explain it here... Mac
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